It could be before you even think about asking her out on a date. Whenever she does something that you like about her, tell her. Say you have just told a joke, she laughs. You say, "Hey, you got my joke. I like you!" You may not want to ask her out on a date, but if you like her, tell her so. Don't wait for the perfect moment. Life is too short for that. I think about the woman who died with a dress in her closet she had never worn. She had had the dress for ten years. She was waiting for just the right occasion. The right occasion is now, when you want to.
Saying I like you does not have to be this calculated, Don Juan sort of thing. Figuring the angles, or making a commitment to a serious relationship. Don't over analyze the thing, "How is she going to take it. What is she going to think." Be brave, do what you think is right, say what you feel. People respect that sort of thing.
2006-07-12 09:52:27
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answered by Doctor 7
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I think the first 3-4 dates is about both you feeling each other out. Learning a little about that person to find out if there is an attraction from both sides. If after a few dates and everything seeems to be going good from your side, i would assume that her continuing the dates, would say shes interested in you as well. Then take it from there and see how it goes. After a little while both of you might have figured out how each feels about the other. You dont want to jump right in, without knowin a little more about someone and that cannot be done in 1 or 2 dates. Good luck.
2006-07-12 09:39:42
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answered by tiffani72kmg 2
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It all depends on the vibes you get from her. Generally though a girl will freak out if you tell her that you like her within the first few dates. Its all too much. Besides, if you have asked us out for the first three dates, it goes without saying that u like us anyway!! I say go with the flow and act when the moment is right.. no need to say it just because you think she wants to hear it. Say it when u mean it and then she will be impressed..
2006-07-12 09:37:32
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answered by J*LO 3
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see i am a girl an i would say 2 date. because on the first date its for you an the girl to talk an know more about each other .an what you like an other stuff. so trust me 2 date is the best
2006-07-12 09:40:15
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answered by lesmaritx 1
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Probaby the second....If you ask her on another date after the first she is gonna know your interested. that other girl that said first date is dumb. You don't want to scare her off. I would say 2nd or 3rd for sure.
2006-07-12 09:35:45
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answered by Tda11 1
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exactly. first date. i know i would want to know right away. i wouldn't want to go on a second date if i didn't know the guy was interested in me. it would sem like a waste of my time.
2006-07-12 09:37:27
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answered by laurfoshoxoxo 2
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first date...she wont want to go on a second date if she doesn't think you like her
2006-07-12 09:34:32
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answered by Anonymous
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I would hope she knows that you like her or their wouldn't be a first date. You should tell her you like her when you ask her out.
2006-07-12 09:36:06
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answered by Christina 4
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dont let on right away .... get to know her a bit, id say wait for like the 3rd date, long enough that you dont seem too eager but not so long that you end up in the friend zone
2006-07-12 09:36:55
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answered by Whitney 4
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answered by schwarm 4
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