can you be good looking and still unnoticed?

Question

Everyone says i look great but when im out people stare but they stare like they just saw a ghost i workout everyday i take care of my skin and hair im average height but im a very quite person do you think thats it or are the people i ask just being nice

Answer 1

I get that alot... doesnt mean I think I'm gorgeous but people have told me they are intimidated. Some people say I looked mean... so watch your body language and facial expression that could be pushing people away. The people you ask could just be nice but if you carry yourself well someone thinks your attractive

Answer 2

look,if u're handsome u'll know it,i mean don't u look at the mirror ever?!!maybe ur friends are being nice but i'll tell u somthing.U might be the ugliest person on earth but with the way u walk,talk,act,ur outfit,ur attitude all this are supplementary and if u had them u r the most handsome and attractive person on earth.On the other hand u caould be the most good looking person,yet u act as a goof and totally lack gentality and the "spark" that would bring out all ur looks and get noticeable.so,all u gotta do is have the right attitude,outfit and the right words in the right moment and voila!

Answer 3

You have a Venus Fly Trap Syndrome....and on top of that you are shy....quite the combination....appears as if you intimidate some folks and others think that you are too good in your appearance and would not be interested in them....try once not being a perfectionist...wear a t-shirt with a hole in it...jeans that are aged and ruffle your hair a bit.....a mild adjustment in personality projection would not hurt either....actually if you are under 20 I have a granddaughter that would be just perfect for you....she knows karate too!....would be able to protect your rear from all the bullies out there.

Answer 4

A lot of people are good looking but aren't particularly noticable because they are quiet or shy and their personalities don't really show. Most people aren't particularly good looking until you really take a good look at them or until you begin to like other aspects of their personality. It's easy to skim through a crowd and completely miss someone you would otherwise find attractive in a more personal atmosphere. So many people, so little time.

Answer 5

if you are actually good looking maybe you need a tan!!! lol TOTALLY KIDDING. Some people arent looking for just good looks. Maybe you should be more outgoing and loud. You say you are quiet so go out on a limb and do something you wouldn't normally, like go to a karaoke bar or take dance lessons. Do something that you would enjoy but would also bring you out socially.

Answer 6

well you wouldn't get feedbck like that from different people and places like that if they are just trying to be nice. Now you must be confident, hold yourself high and don't be scared. Don't be so shy or quiet Every human being is just a human being...there are so many of people running around this world that you shouldn't worry what people think if you aproach them (do it it a decent manner) You win some you loose some.

Answer 7

mayb ur friends really r trying 2 b nice. On the other hand looks is not all ur attitude also says alot. Even if ur ugly if u have a gr8 attitude ppl will b drawn 2 u n i would not say u r not noticed u r but u prob. don't like how u r noticed or who u r noticed by

Answer 8

Probably because you are quiet or seem shy, is why they may see you but not react verbally to you. Smile and say "hi" occasionally and see what happens.

Self confidence is often more of an attractor than physical appearance. Someone who exudes that will be like a magent to others...whereas someone who is good looking, but lacks confidence or is quiet/shy may get noticed but more likely just in passing...

Answer 9

I have had the exact same problem as you. Everyone told me I was pretty but guys never talked to me. I'm very quiet too. I've had a boyfriend now for a year and 3 monthes and he's the only one I've ever had. Once we started dating and he started telling everyone about us all his friends talked about how hot I was. I was so surprized because none of them ever payed attention to me but they thought I was hot all along. They are probably just intimidated by you because you are so quiet and they just don't know what to say. My boyfriend said he had a hard time talking to me because I never talked to anyone. Your time will come. Just be patient. It worked for me.

Answer 10

It comes down to personality. Some people are vibrant, and some are quiet. Some quiet people noticed... but some people (I have met afew) manage to hide. Some kids in the classroom, the teacher even forgets they are their... Some people somehow hide when thery are there... I have seen it. I wish I could hide, lol. I seem very visible to the people around me...

Answer 11

(assuming youre a girl) It sounds like you're a real cutie! It also sounds like you're kind of shy...don't be! Be outgoing (not in the slutty sense tho). But since you look so good guys are probably too nervous to go up to you, hence you feel unnoticed.