a while ago, this other guy kissed me and i told my boyfriend the day after. at first he didn't seem to care...at all. he doesn't get jelous. but then i had this party and the "other guy" was there. my boyfriend got REALLY quiet and he told me that it just sunk in. ever since then he's been avoiding me. i havn't talked to him for a few weeks...he didn't even say anything on our 1 month anniversary and HE was the one making a big deal about it. i've left him messages and stuff asking to talk to him or just saying hi, but he NEVER responds. i'm really tired of this, what do i do?
2006-07-12 09:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by fadetopink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i apologized a million times and he said he wasn't mad at me, he was mad at the other guy. he seemed fine with it even after the party, i mean he was upset but he said it wouldn't affect "us" but on the last day of school he started to avoid me and stuff
2006-07-12 09:35:12 · update #1
F**k me! if it's like this after 1 month (honeymoon period) then what the hell would it be like after 3 years?
forget it, he is obviously not keen enough and slightly immature not to be able to talk things through
2006-07-12 09:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by izzydawizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time... dont contact him. I would email or leave a message so that you understand how the situation is tough for him but you still want to be with him and how ever much time he needs you'll give it and for him to please contact you so yall can atleast talk about it. after that if he doesnt respond in a reasonable amount of time I would leave a message saying your moving on.
2006-07-12 16:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Capricorn82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to realize you screwed up! And 1 month!? that doesn't seem like a relationship at all. get over it! Seems like he moved on.
2006-07-12 16:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tda11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him... if he wanted a relationship he would be returning your calls.
2006-07-12 16:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋