Last night I had a weird experience with this guy that I have been dating now for over 6 months and don't know if I am making way too much of it, but I have got to know. Last night, my bf came over and he wasn't feeling too well and was tired from the start. Well in HIS relax moment, we decided to get intimate and the first time was great and passionate. Well when I wanted a second go 'round, he couldn't rise to the occassion even after many efforts in trying so. Feeling awkward, I asked if everything was okay and he responded that he obviously wasn't feeling as well as he thought but still very affectionate. (Normally we go about 3-4 times in about a 5 min interval) It was great last night and all, but the time frame wasn't our normal time frame and I am starting to fear our relationship is turning sour and I think he's losing interest, so I ask, is it me or what?
2006-07-12 09:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by lucky32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this has been consistently happening over the course of several weeks or months then, yes, potentially. If this is a one-time deal, though--and it certainly sounds from your writing that it is--then yes, you're making WAY too much out of it.
Age is also a potential factor. All males have a "turn-around" time, so to speak, which can range anywhere from a minute or two on up. The older the man, the more likely he has a longer turn-around time.
Please also remember that if your guy wanted to have another go-round, but couldn't, it was also embarrassing and awkward for him, too. It is, perhaps, best to just put the incident behind you.
2006-07-12 09:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by gamesmaster_209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what happens when sex becomes the focal point of a relationship, if something sexual is going wrong, then the whole relationship is going to crap. He said he was tired and not feeling good from the jump, and you probably seduced him to go the first time. Give the man a break, let him get well first. If he is well and your normal sexual habits don't take place, then maybe you should ask him. But remember things change, he may not like having sex that much all the time, but that does not mean he likes you any less.
2006-07-12 09:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO......... He said he wasn't feeling well....... when u'r sick do u like a guy to f.... u?...... No i dont think so give the guy a break he was SICK...... give him time to rest and maybe in a couple days he'll be back to his normal self.......
2006-07-12 09:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is common in normal course of time. adjustment is the best way between you two.
2006-07-12 09:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, the same thing happened to my hubby. IM or e-mail me and let me tell you some things you can do and some things that have happened to me....Angela
2006-07-12 09:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by sapahaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his other g/f is taking all the ammo, you are getting sloppy fifths or sixths. he is spent by the time it is your turn.
2006-07-12 09:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him not us
2006-07-12 09:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋