Like, a girl who is shy and doesn't warm up to people very quickly.
What goes in her (possibly your) mind when you see a guy.
What would be a good way to handle a shy girl?
And what impresses a shy girl?
2006-07-12 09:08:51 · 24 answers · asked by rambocommandodude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, thanks guys- rather mostly- gals.
I appreciate your best wishes and luck.
For now I'm only interested in being friends.
But I find pretty much all of what you all say to be logical. I do feel alittle more confidant after reading it though. You all put in detail even if a few sentences which I like.
So thanks, perhaps I'll add some details or message you all on what happens when anything happens.
I work at the local movie theatre and have seen her a few times, we've never really talked, but the other night she DID smile at me, for the first time I think, wether she was smiling at me or smiling in general I think it was a good sign lol. heh- I did point that out lol.
One thing I want to ask is- is she listening, sometimes I'm kind of quiet when I say something to her, which isn't often but I wonder if she hears what I say.
2006-07-12 11:19:46 · update #1
but she was with her best friend when that happend, which is good. It was the longest I've ever been around her, and dang they ordered alot of candy.
2006-07-12 11:21:11 · update #2
Take a look at a few of my answers, including but not limited to my 'best answers' and let me know what part of my personality would be good to be dominant for now?
2006-07-12 11:28:57 · update #3
dont throw urself at her...be calm...flirt a lil...get lil touchy....DONT SCARE HER....she'll get the hint
2006-07-12 09:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl mind and heart is a very special to them and the way to impress a girl to be be yourself and let her know that you are the only guy who could ever treat her that way. Believe me i a shy girl too but after about 5 days i begin to warm up to people. All you have to do is make her laugh once or twice and all that shyness will most likly go away. if this does not work remember be the only you, you can be!!
2006-07-12 16:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a shy girl and it would be great if you just walk right up to her and say hi and smile. But act like you are just being friendly and then you can be a friend for a long time like a few months, then you can kiss her. That's just my opinion. Unless she stops being shy. Which can usually happen sometimes.
2006-07-12 16:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm a guy, If I were to see a shy girl, I wouldn't know anything about her because she doesn't want to open her world, she wants to live in her world and not enjoy everything that surrounds her! However, if I were the shy gir and saw a guy, then I would say millions of words about him, maybe I would be in loved with him, but I would be too scared to tell him. If he was a grat talented, awesome man and gorgeous, then I wouldn't tell him anything because I'm afraid he won't accept me for who I may be! Butt if theat guy is willing to change me and encourage me and give me confidence, then we can both confront this situation and live our lives, but this can happen if the guy is willing to understand my problem and keep up with it! There's not many guys like that, but many are great, so when you find the perfect one or he comes to your life, don't let him go! fight for your man or girl!!
2006-07-12 16:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes through our heads is what goes through everyone else's heads. We're just a little more quiet than the rest of the world. Just start talking if you want to talk to a shy girl, she may not make the first move. And every shy girl is different, so I don't know what empresses every shy girl.
2006-07-12 16:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy people are especially fearful of rejection or feeling foolish or humiliated...they don't like being the center of attention (esp of a crowd or group)...they have trouble talking to someone they are not comfortable around or socializing in groups, so will seem standoffish or rude, when actually they just aren't comfortable...
Be warm...be funny...if you get her to smile, you've broken the ice and are well on your way...be prepared to carry the conversation, but make sure you allow her to speak when she's ready to...
2006-07-12 16:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am a shy girl and to impress me the best thing to do is talk to me about anything, don't push the issue, but don't just give up if I give short answers. The best way to handle it is to be patient, don't be to pushy and give me a little space.
2006-07-12 16:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by la_diablita_1999 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think will be ok if you give her smile for first and next step try to contact her. like: hi i am ...., i see you are nice girl so where you come from, i like to talk and be your friend if is ok for you. if this not work first time try next day again and again... , you will see you will open her heart soon and she will be no more shy with you. show here you are really her friend, she will be so happy!!!
wish you all best!
:)
2006-07-12 16:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is working overtime trying to figure out what to say, how to put it, not making a fool of herself and how others will react, and how she will react if other people react this way or that way or if they say this she might say that and if that is stupid, and how does she look if she cannot keep an eyecontact and if she cant then what should she say and where would she look...........
2006-07-12 16:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should go easy on her don't come on to hard. be around her if you can and let her get comfortable with you. if she like you she won't mind. you can flirt a little when maybe people are not around and she is probaby impressed by outgoing people...you know because she doesn't have that quality.
2006-07-12 16:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her feel comfortable, and care for her dont do anything 2 wild. but remeber shy girls LOOK like they r shy but when u get to know the person, sometimes, the person is all but shy
2006-07-12 16:12:54 · answer #11 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋