my boss is my best friends lover they have been seeing each other for years and to day he had me go to his hose to get some things and he started talking just about work and things we wasnt doing anything wrong and she pulled up and just started screaming at us! what should i do to make her understand that i would never hurt her like that?
2006-07-12 09:06:51 · 16 answers · asked by sassy1011984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she needs to talk to him, herself.
and for you, all you can say is that you are sorry, but you dont like him that way and you nevr will. then its up to her.
2006-07-12 09:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you both may not have been doing anything wrong, it does sound like your friend is very insecure. If your boss is married and attatched, this would give her good reason to think theres something up. If he isnt single and hes messing around with your friend, your friend might have it in her head, hes cheating on her as well. Maybe a sincere card you can give her with you explaining exactly what was going on and that you dont step on friends toes, might help her calm down and think about it and maybe she can give you the benefit of the doubt. Good luck.
2006-07-12 09:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by tiffani72kmg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a big mistake? It sounds like your friend has some emotional problems she needs to deal with. She sounds way insecure. Tell her you didn't do anything and get over it. If she doesn't believe you, she's probably a terrible friend.
2006-07-12 09:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it will not be easy, you could avoid such situation in the future by telling in advance that u will go to your bosses house at his request. For now you should appeal to your best friend trust.
2006-07-12 09:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering why she would just start screaming at him? why the trust issue? obviously she doesnt trust you being with her b/f alone- maybe your flirty or something- doesnt sound right that she would start yelling- and b/f wasnt worried about u being there and her showing up so i'm thinking you maybe your the problem.
2006-07-12 09:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look her directly in the eye,and ask her why would she think that you are that kind of person?maybe your boss is telling her things to make her jealous.or the ***** is crazy.
2006-07-12 09:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by MISSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems kinda paranoid that her lover is cheating on her...MAKE her listen to you and tell her not to make such stupid assumptions, then tell her what happened and how you would never hurt her. maybe you can even find out WHY she's so paranoid and whats going on with thier relationship.
2006-07-12 09:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by fadetopink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is stupid. She does not trusst her boy friend nor you. The first lesson of love in any relationship is trust. Try speaking to her about it. It is good if she listens and trust you. Or else, nothing to worry about she is the loser.
2006-07-12 09:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by charmaine m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one
since he's banging the boss - she probably figures he would be banging other chicks too
Oh well
Maybe you could tell her that it's frickin wrong to be banging her boss anyway, so she really doens't have a moral high ground to stand on
2006-07-12 09:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and if she doesn't believe u SLAP her then say B**** I told u all what happen then if u don't believe me then u don't have to be my friend, BYE!
2006-07-12 09:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋