Me and my bf just broke up and I am so lonely... all of our friends were mutual and they have kinda stopped talking to me... we were sexually active and I really miss that too!!! What should I do
2006-07-12 09:05:58 · 26 answers · asked by Help??? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loneliness is one of the hardest things for people to deal with. I have been lonely, believe it or not, for my entire life: with little friends, and plenty of spare time on my hands to sit and ponder my loneliness. All you can do is to try and come up with some sort of activity to fill your time so that you no longer feel lonely anymore. Friends can be bought and sold, so just forget your old, and obviously not so, "friends" and get some new ones. You'll be better off anyway. And, try not to worry so much. You may miss your boyfriend and you may be lonely, but it is not the end of the world. You will find another, and you will move on to the betterment of your life. All you need is a little faith, hope, and confidence. The key here being confidence that things will get better and you will no longer be lonely. Good luck!
2006-07-12 09:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 16⤊ 1⤋
First, make some new friends...second, buy yourself a d*ldo...third, realize alone and lonely aren't the same thing and make your life one that you'll enjoy, as a single or part of a couple...
It'll take some time for your heart to heal, but it'll be fine...until then, keep yourself busy, and get out there and be social and make some new friends! Good luck!
2006-07-12 09:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time on yourself, work out, go for a walk, get a pedicure. Meet new people at a bar or wherever and also most importantly learn what you want out of your life. And visiting a sex shop some where doesn't hurt. If you don't have one around anywhere try www.surpriseparties.com
2006-07-12 09:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your time alone. Go buy a really good book and go to your favorite coffee shop and spend the whole day there. Find new hobbies, workout, do things require a lot of time. Get a part time job (somewhere fun).
2006-07-12 09:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Irene A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out and find something to occupy your time. Start making new friends. Are you working? Become more involved with your coworkers (not THAT way!) outside of the work environment. Join a club or public organization.
2006-07-12 09:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to allow for time to heal your broken heart. As for the mutual friends, if they're not talking to you anymore, I'd have to say they aren't your friends at all. A true friend would stick by you.
2006-07-12 09:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by mandydc3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explore your interests; get some hobbies, try something new, or call up one of your friends. Maybe they'd want to get together a do things with you, even though your boyfriend is out of the picture. Good luck.
2006-07-12 09:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by busy_kona_b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing when i split with my gf, we met through a couple mutual friends, when we split they all went against me, but after a while one reached out to me and we started talking, sadly i dont see much of any of them anymore because of other circumstances, but remember the reasons those people chose you as a friiend will outweigh the reason they aint speaking to you, just got to wait for them to realise that, and if they dont, then they were never really your friends
2006-07-12 09:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie I'm having the same problem but first thing i did to forget him is thinking in a bad way of him every thing that he did to me good i turned it in my mind and made it bad and then i met new guys sure they aren't like him but they can keep you busy and about sexual emotions try to imagine your self having sex with every hot guy you meet in the road and it will work for Little time till you feel better
2006-07-12 09:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at why you two broke up. Once you come to grips why you two no longer are together then you'll understand what you should do.
2006-07-12 09:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by pooh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋