She walked out on him. He just wanted companionship. I was totally okay with that. But we've fallen in love. His divorce is not yet finalized. It's not like we're looking to marry tomorrow. He's tried to distance himself from me till this it's over but he has a hard time doing that. Could it be an infatuation? He likes my kids and they like him. He tells me it's all happening so fast. I agree, but is there a time frame that a person uses before letting the heart take over. I do love him, i'm just confused.
2006-07-12 09:04:45 · 7 answers · asked by blue eyed belle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should have mentioned she walked out nearly a year ago. We met on a personals site. We're not kids so to speak, i'm over 40 and he's over 50. Everything feels so right. Like I said we're not about to get married tomorrow. He says he doesn't want to get married again. There are times I myself don't want to either. My divorce hurt me deeply. I'm not so sure i'd want to marry for fear of a repeat.
2006-07-12 11:12:26 · update #1
give it some time before pushing things on... let the divorce settle. yes, things may seem like they're going too fast, but follow your heart. let nature take its course. you should spend time with him, just don't move too fast until everything else is settled.
2006-07-12 09:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When things go fast it tends to get confusing...this is a red flag to SLOW IT DOWN. There is no need to rush. If you really like this guy, don't rush into anything. Have fun with each other also make time for yourself and your kids alone away from him I am not trying to be negative here but this man can jump out of your life just as quickly as he came in. Getting bored of somebody is easy to do when you obsess over each other in the beginning....another reason to TAKE IT SLOW.
2006-07-12 16:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant put a time limit on love.I fell in love and was married in 3 months after meeting my wife and we have been happily married for 4 years. A lot of people said we went to fast but, a lot of those couples are no longer together and we still are.
2006-07-12 16:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by chloreneheidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're not a rebound? You need to take a step back! If it IS love, there is no harm in taking your time. You sound like you are infatuated right now. Whats the hurry? He needs to get over his soon to be exwife before he can come to you with a heart he can completely give to you.
2006-07-12 16:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct which says it IS happening way too fast.
2006-07-12 16:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by ShinIrvin0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time. what is the be hurry?
2006-07-12 16:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by sisT27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR SURE IT IS TOO FAST!!!
2006-07-12 16:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by mustafa63gar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋