2006-07-12 08:55:57 · 40 answers · asked by Whitney H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To make them feel better about it. Not sure but have seen it go both ways.
2006-07-12 08:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by fl2stay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not about the other person (you) so don't take it personally. It is obviously something wrong with the cheater. At this point you have to decide whether to stay or go. His cheating could be about anything, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Ask him, why he cheated. Does she do things you don't do, does she listen to him without interruption, does she give him massages, does she show him lots of attention via, cards, letters, phone calls, the things that the mans woman usually takes for granted.
Woman have got to remember to try whatever he wants, because what you won't do, someone else is more than willing to do. Sorry he hurt you, but talk to him.
2006-07-12 09:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time a guy tells you, he loves you; ask yourself which part? Some love the act and not the person. Others have no concept of true love; or what it takes to make a relationship work. I think it would be much easier on both parties, if honest communication took place.
2006-07-12 08:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think there is a definate answer to this question, but, I can tell you like this.
A man is like a child or puppy....they will do what they know they can get away with. A man wouldn't cheat if he didn't feel like he could get away with it.
2006-07-12 08:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that to make themselves feel better about cheating, like their cheating is justified
2006-07-12 08:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, not all guys are douche-bags.
You need to improve your game, so you can identify when a guy is playing a game on you!
Then after turning down thousands of wannabe playas, you will meet a charming, charismatic guy, who appreciates you.
2006-07-12 09:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by wickedzone84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because by saying they love you it made em feel like little school girls so they cheat on you to get the macho back
2006-07-12 08:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by MyGreenCivic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a male gene they're naturally born with. Just remember girl-don't put up with it. Drop him and move on. If he's done it once he's surely to do it again. You are way worth more than that.
2006-07-12 08:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by nurse33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men ar never satisfied with what they have (not all but most) they always want to test the waters out to see if there missing out on anything. Its pretty sad.
2006-07-12 08:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys will all ways tell you they love you...sometimes to get into your pants...but if you dont give it up to them they sometimes cheat..but dont give it up to them....or maybe he does love you and he knows he has a good girl so he maybe just trying to get some from some other girl...cuz he knows he has a good girl...trust me my bf did that to me no to long ago..
2006-07-12 09:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~SweetPea~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋