He called me (yes, over the phone) and said we need to go see other people. He also said I sound sad or upset everytime I talk to him on the phone. He works everyday in the summer. I've broken up with him a few times because of his immaturity. I told him to think about what he wants and he didn't respond. And I know his mom talked him into this because he more or less hinted so. But he's messed up so many times that I have no feeling or stress of breaking up with him. I actually feel relieved. Less depressed. I also have 2 years left of school and I can transfer to another if I want because we're moving, too. I have a hearing disability and wear 2 hearing aids and the school I can go to...I know a few there already from elementry. So, my actual questions here are Should I go to the other school or should I stay with my current friends? and What should I tell him next time he flirts or when I see him again?
2006-07-12 08:53:47 · 11 answers · asked by dancing_with_patience 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 16 and he's 15 but he can be a real nice guy...to most people. But we've been off and on for about 2-3 years now. I just feel like not giving any more chances. Thanks to all who've answered so far cuz you really helped! I guess I need to get my head out of the clouds and look around for someone else...
2006-07-12 13:08:40 · update #1
Actually, I'm thinking on staying in my school. I don't need to leave because of him. Besides, I have good friends and two years of highschool left to be with them if not anymore afterwards. And I've been told it's a lot better to date someone from another neighboring school when in highschool. So, I think I'm gonna stay. Thanks so far everyone!
2006-07-13 00:21:57 · update #2
Being dumped is not nice, but it's a fact of life. Virtually everyone gets dumped at some stage, and whilst it hurts, it is a normal part of growing up.
If you are dumped, then first try to understand why you were dumped - did you do anything "wrong" that you can learn to correct, or was it one of those 'drifting apart' things.
The key is not to feel bad about yourself - tell yourself it is their loss not yours and you are a great person.
Try not to let your confidence get knocked. Continue doing all your other activities as before that did not involve that person and stay busy.
Do not be tempted to pine for them or try to get them to change their mind. Use your energy in a positive way to get on with your life.
Hope this helps~ Contact me if you need anything else~
2006-07-22 03:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him, he doesnt seem like he trully appreciates you and wants to be with you, he also sounds rather inmature, i dont noe his age, but he shouldnt break up with you because you sound sad all the time, mayb your just not the type of girl who likes to tlk on the phone! about the school, you should go somewhere where you trully are happy and feel comfortable with the people around
2006-07-12 09:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by <LittleFoot> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should move cuz you're both yung to be serious and there are a lot of other people out there that u can see so u shouldnt be committed so much but if he flirts or when u see him jus act like he is not a part of you anymore
2006-07-12 15:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by miltown_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, if u want to change schools go a head , but know u will have to make new friends. don't move because your bf gos to your school.
second, don't say any thing to him and if he asks u back out tell him he had a chance.
2006-07-12 09:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an identical element. the reason I broke up with mine is I basically did no longer like him anymore, it basically diminished as you suggested. it is not likely coldhearted. you are able to no longer stay mendacity to him saying which you like him once you do no longer or it may be even worse.
2016-12-14 07:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on change is good but if you like where you are let him feel bad for a change sounds like all he does is disappoint you.
2006-07-12 08:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats gonna benefit fit you in teh future these friends or a good carrer, also how are your friends gonna effect you while your in scholl and through out life are they gonna be by you or they gonna leave you at times of strugle
2006-07-12 08:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it no one wants to around negative people or energy if he flirts just walk out pay him no attention you should do whats best for you
2006-07-12 08:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-07-12 08:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry be happy
2006-07-12 08:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋