Okay I am 5'7 and I have a smaller/average chest but my butt is really big and I guess u cud say I was "thick" is that tha reason guys won't date me but just want sex? does size really matter? I mean I am not small but I am not like huge...
2006-07-12 08:52:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't put out unless i kno there is sumthing there...maybe I jus attract tha players...i jus feel like sum guys don't wanna be seen wit a gurl if she doesn't look like a model...
2006-07-12 09:00:21 · update #1
if guys just want you for sex, then they deserve to have thier penises chopped off. but anyways, it does seem that how you look affects if guys will date you but do you really want to be in a relationship just because you're hot? it shouldn't be about what you look like. if a guy can't see how awsome you are without you having a perfect bod, then he's not worth it.
2006-07-12 08:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by fadetopink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 5'11. I'm not skinny but I'm not fat either. I'm average. i played soccer, and volleyball when I was younger so I'm very athletic. Alot of guys like a girl with a little meat on them. I have had no problem getting a nice guy. As a matter of fact I just got married not that long ago. So size doesn't really matter. You will find the right person when the time is right. Good Luck.
2006-07-12 15:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you turn guys on like crazy. That's not really a problem! Wanting your body is not very far from wanting you! Just turn the bad ones down and keep looking! It's better to have lots of interested candidates that don't quite make the grade, then to have none at all! Also, sometimes one-night stands turn into great marriages!
Anyone who's large is going to have a harder time of it then a fit slim person all things being equal, but the dating world is also forgiving and rewards persistence and confidence.
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OMG! One of the other answers wants to chop someone's penis off! That's just wrong.
2006-07-12 16:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about your personality. If you are putting yourself out there as confident you will appear that way to others as well. I have seen some VERY big girls have tons of boyfriends so size isn't really relevant. Every guy has a type of girl tehy prefer and skinny skinny aint so hot.
2006-07-12 15:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and you will find the one right for you. If size or looks matter more than what is inside then you do not need such a shallow guy.
2006-07-12 15:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by DEE L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys like well-endowed girls. Are you putting out on the first date, or are you taking the time to get to know the guy?
2006-07-12 15:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by busy_kona_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys want to have sex with just about every woman under the sun. that doesn't mean they want to go out with every woman they find. everybody, and I mean EVERYBODY, including Britney Spears and Lindsay Lohan have trouble finding a decent boyfriend. and I have trouble finding girls to go out with who aren't jerks. Just be patient, be your lovely sweet self, try to get the things you want and avoid the things you don't, and believe it or not, you will eventually meet somebody who will treat you well and love your body too.
2006-07-12 16:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys ever want is sex. So instead of letting them have what they want don't let them and try to get them to know the inner you not the outside you.
2006-07-12 15:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by jazzoboist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pushin Cushion is GREAT, but sounds like you're hanging around the wrong guys.
2006-07-12 15:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like all kinds of women. u must just attract the losers.
i'm a magnet 2, even tho i'm no longer single, they don't care.
don't fret, u'll find 1
2006-07-12 15:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋