my ex broke up with me last week at 19 weeks into my pregnancy, it seems pretty lonely and scary at the minute. will love ever be out there for a single mum aged 19
2006-07-12 08:38:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It will be better to first look after your child than worrying yourself finding another love.
2006-07-12 08:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear this. But please be careful about jumping into a relationship with another person. It's very possible to find someone, but the worst thing you can do is get a guy because you need someone. Those relationships don't work out very well. Wait until you are ready to offer someone something in return and have healed from this relationship. The reason I say this, is if you are with a guy because you need him and leap into the relationship, How do you know that you will end up with someone who will be good for the baby and yourself.
Hang in there. Time will heal all wounds.
2006-07-12 15:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you'll find love again. Just don't go looking for it right now. Your ex doesn't deserve you OR the baby. But make sure you get child support fr the father ! You should only be focusing on you & the baby right now. Eat properly, get lots of rest, take iron if you need it. Try not to focus on your ex. I haven't been w/ my ex for 4 whole wks now !!! Woo-hoo !!! (yr & 1/2 long rel Unfortunately the jerk called me... prob was drunk & "needed" to talk to me) Anywayz, keep your head up & take care of you & the baby... Good luck !!!
2006-07-12 15:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u will find love again and your ex that left u, u are better off with out him because he didn't love u anyway. If someone really loves u they will stay with u no matter what and if u find someone that is a good person and loves u the kid will not scare them off.
2006-07-12 15:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Earl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear yes yes yes but don't worry about that now mr right is elusive and never comes while we are looking so focus on your baby - be the best mom in the world - its gonna be hard very hard and that is true regardless of age or mate and one day it will all be fine - the love you are going to have for your baby will pale to the love will ever have for a man good luck
2006-07-12 15:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find love better than ever. The guy you meet will know up front your situation and will tell you right from the get go what he is thinking. You are a gift from God and a good man will realize it.
2006-07-12 15:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by buffman316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's out there. Focus on you and your baby for now! Your health and the babies is vital so don't stress out about your ex. He's lost two very good things, let him go, his loss not at all yours. Call on your family and your friends for support, don't forget prayer-i believe it truly works. I also believe we all have someone out there waiting for us, and God will send them when the time is right. I do believe that God will not give you anything he didn't think you couldn't handle. There are a lot of good men out there that enjoy children...just wait, you'll see. Good things come to those who wait.
2006-07-12 15:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by nurse33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, when you are in that situation i know it seems like no guy will be wanting someone who already has a child. I know this, ITS NOT TRUE! SOOOO many guys don't care, and once you get over your ex and figure out the mommy thing, they will be lined up. Trust me.
2006-07-12 15:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and you are lucky he left now so that your child will not have to see that. once your child is born you will not have time to think about anyone else and it is the greatest feeling because that child will love you from the moment he or she is born. give it time and concentrate on your health and getting ready for that beautiful baby.
2006-07-12 15:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Heather M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you´ll find love again, you´re very young.
But... but... be very careful this time.
You musn´t have children with every "new" love in your life!
Grow up! learn of each lesson life gives you.
Have a nice day.
2006-07-12 15:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋