We are talking about sex here...she claims to be a nympho but you have to get her in the mood first...which in turn means about once every 2 weeks...
2006-07-12 08:33:45 · 31 answers · asked by Q-Tip 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To get your girl in the mood, you need to get inside her mind. Call her early in the day just to tell her how much you love her and how sexy she is. Send her a token of affection to her workplace, nothing fancy, just something to let her know that you were thinking about her. When the two of you are alone, make sure you have the right music playing. Music is such an aphrodisiac when the right songs are selected. You could have her a CD made of sensual, love songs as your token of affection. Offer to rub her feet or give her a massage and be gentle, patient, and loving.
2006-07-12 08:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go clothes shopping at the mall with her, that's mandatory, then tell her how great she looks every couple minutes, spend a lot of money on her, do a bunch of handyman things for her, call her on the phone 10 times a day, go to a bunch of stupid love story movies with her, then and only then, hit her real fast with a ton of pitiful begging. Please, please, please, I don't bite, type of stuff. Oh, I almost forgot, you've got to be telling her that you love her, over and over, all the way. Just lie through your teeth, you have to because all the other guys are. Sometimes, in a weak moment, she might cave in, have some mercy on you and you actually can get lucky, if you're lucky, but don't expect her to move and you better make it fast with no weird stuff. Then you have to hang around for several hours and pretend nothing happened, until she forgets and you can get the hell out of there.
The key is to be playing at least 5 'nymphos' ha, at a time if you want something maybe once a week. Problem is it becomes an overwhelming chore to keep them all thinking they're the only one, plus it bankrupts most of us. That's why so many men just go dry and learn how to pound the walls. And if you think you have it bad now, wait until you get married. Good luck.
2006-07-12 16:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not a nympho, if she was a nympho you wouldn't be asking how to get her started cause she would always be ready. the real question would be how to keep her off of you, that's if she really was a nympho. but i mean you can try kissing the back of her neck and licking her back and like just hugging her and stuff make her feel loved. Or if she's nasty then you'll figure that out too when you are licking her back. See how she responds to the foreplay. good luck
2006-07-12 15:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that she's not a nympho by those standards. And, if she was a nympho, the only thing you'd have to say is "hi" and she'd be on you like white on rice.
Men are turned on by sight (nudity, breasts, etc); women are turned on by sound (words, music, etc). You have to say some nice things to her, or sing her favorite song. Now, you don't have to be the best singer, but you can't be William Hung either.
You say all the right things, you wont have to ask for sex. It will come. Literally.
2006-07-12 15:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then shey's not a nympho sugar...the very definition of nymphomania is "excessive sexual desire"...once every 2 weeks isn't even close (once every couple of hours, would probably qualify)...
However, regardless of her misconception of herself, if you want to get her in the mood there are a number of things you can try...porn, extended foreplay, role-playing, set a romantic mood with candles/music and maybe a bath together...sex toys, oils, flavored lubes...the list could go on...
Good luck...I hope ya find something that works well for ya both!
2006-07-12 15:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nympho is a word used to loosely in our society it doesn't have the same effect it once did I think as a society we are oversexed anyway which doesn't have to be a bad thing but buddy seriously if you want to get your girl in the mood find things she likes take risks they pay off big time find secluded areas where you two could have a romp things like that keep it intresting and keep her guessing
2006-07-12 15:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by iflifewerebeautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask your girl what her turn-ons are. You know what gets her in the mood. Nymphos don't need to get in the mood because they always are.
2006-07-12 15:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a nympho...as a nympho is addicted to sex and already turned on...foreplay works the best, start with kissing, a little touching, don't just wait till you get hard then try to stick it in her..thats boring as h e ll
2006-07-12 15:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a nympho! Get her a dictionary and then if she still says she's one, find out who else she's giving it up to!
2006-07-12 15:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by ice_queen2427 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk dirty to her, watch a porn, foreplay. Bring out the strawberries and whipped cream. If she were a "nympho" you would not be asking this question.
2006-07-12 15:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋