i had love marriage with my childhood friend my family were against itand i don't go to parents house. now i m pregent and Dr. said the child is abnormal and may have effect on brain and heart or liver and kidney.my husband was against abortion and it was the question of life and death of both me and the child.then also i was ready but when Dr. said the child is abnormal i decided to abort but as my husband said if you dare to abort child i can do anything so i didn't inform it. now i tried a lot by couldn't say him about it .if he comes to know he will destroy himself, me and my family. so show me the way.I will be thankful to you for whole life
2006-07-12 08:31:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If i understand this right, you already had the abortion right? And now you are trying to figure out to tell him? Honestly if it was a matter of life and death for you and the child you had every right to abort. Is this the guy that you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone that is threatening your life and your family? It sounds to me like there is a lot more going on and you should really consider your feelings for this man. You don't have to explain yourself to him, it is your life and your choice. Sorry you have to go through this but what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger! Keep your head up!!!
2006-07-12 08:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by pdanielleh 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry for what ur going through. I don't know how u feel, I have never gone through that. But u made the decision that was best for u. Ur husband is just being a man. When a man hears he got someone pregnant he feels like more of a man. That's all he feels, he doesn't know what ur going through, he doesn't know what its like to carry a baby, and be afraid. Just remember its always the woman's choice.
2006-07-12 15:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by wanting another baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This phrase is a bit scary "he will destroy himself, me and my family"
You seriously need to get the hell away from him. Go to a halfway house, or call 911 and tell them you need help getting to the nearest shelter where your insane husband can't find you. Then get a divorce lawyer that does cases for battered women. If your husband is threatening to harm you, you need to get out now before he really does.
2006-07-12 15:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by E's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, that is a choice only YOU can make, and for him to try and tell you what you HAVE to do is horseshit. I say leave him and make up your own mind....sounds to me like there is a lot more going on that just a very unhealthy baby...maybe you need to decide if your marriage is even worth trying to save?
2006-07-12 15:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~~Rina~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police, and they can help protect you. But if you might have died because you had the child, he should be thankful you're still alive. It's not your fault and you had to chose. Go to the police and ask them to help you.
2006-07-12 15:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Erin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him you were confused and you did'nt know what to do. if he truly love you he'll understand.
2006-07-17 12:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by lhee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋