last night my boyfriend suggested a threesome. the friend he suggested is moving this weekend and i think he might like her so i think thats why he suggested Her. i've thought about it but she's someone i know and it would be weird. so he suggested it be some i dont know. he really wants to have one. i asked him about having a threesome with a guy to see how he would react and he straight up said "NO". but i told him, if he can't have a threesome with a guy, then i can't have one with a girl. am i being a b|tch or am i being a good girlfriend?
2006-07-12 08:27:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all: if you don't feel comfortable with a threesome..don't have one. Don't let your boyfriend make you feel so guilty that you have one against your will. Second: you are absolutely right! a threesome with a guy is the same to you as a threesome with a girl is to him. If he is not comfortable having another guy around, he should respect you for not wanting another girl in the bedroom. If he doesn't respect your boundaries, this is not the right guy for you. You should never be forced or blackmailed into doing something you don't want. All the best!
2006-07-12 08:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Blah... what are all these people answering like freakin 15 years old or something?? First off, dont listen to these guys, their just trying to come off as "nice guys" to get your attention. They have no other interest but to get you in the sack themselves (or on webcam for that matter)~ Now some of these girls are right, not all though. Bottom line here is how comfortable you are. Just because you have a threesome with a friend doesnt mean it will ruin your relationship. 90% of the time things stay cool. Its only the 10% you hear about. Your b/f isnt being unreasonable. This day in age there are literally dozens of FMF scenarios happening in most given cities everyday. FMF is more common and acceptable than MFM. There was a time when FMF was unacceptable by ALL means. Who knows, maybe 20 years from now MFM will be just as normal as FMF. Now because he wants a threesome dont mean he doesnt want you anymore. If a guy wants another girl, then he will cheat. Cheating is more common than pissing anymore. If he wants to include you.... ROCK ON! Go for it, if you dont like it then STOP. If you do... you're gonna wanna do it more and more. Trust me.... I know
2006-07-15 03:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by greg b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a *****. If you don't like the idea of threesome - don't do it, no matter if you know the other girl or not. If you like the idea - try it, only with the girl you want. You don't have to worry about being a ***** or good girlfriend. Just be sure you are not doing things that you don't like. But if you like them - it's not a problem.
2006-07-12 08:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sabina_Rois 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right on, he just wants to nail another girl, but 2 chicks together is super hot.
3 somes are a lot of fun, just make sure there is complete trust otherwise it will be bad afterward.
If you are the least bit jealous, don't do it. Trust me.
Most guys will never want another man's junk that close to theirs, if they do, they may be a little off.
2006-07-12 08:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good girlfriend dont have a threesome he just wants to score with another girl
2006-07-12 08:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Dimond eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to first have a threesome with you and HIS friend, hell change his tune
men are men, they want there cake n eat it too. you may enjoy it, and if you do, have fun but if not you are opening alot of doors you can never close!! think hard first!!
you will feel left out a little cuz he wont mean to but he will focus more on her cuz its new. you r not a bad gf, he is in the wrong, there are men out there who may think about other woman but will only want you.
2006-07-12 08:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are fine he is being retarded. If he picked her out himself then it does sound like he likes her (not that it'll prolly turn into anything). As awesome as a threesome sounds I could never ask my girlfriend to do that. It's too weird and not intimate at all. Maybe you could introduce something new into your guys sex life? I donno. But if he keeps stuff like this up and you don't like it then you might wanna start looking at other guys.
2006-07-12 08:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love your response to him. Hold your ground and hon most importantly if your not into a 3 some even if with 2 guys...dont even talk about it as if you would do it. Do what you want to do for yourself. There are a zillion more ways your dude can be pleasured besides bringing others into your bed.
2006-07-12 08:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do something you are not comfortable with. And... tell him... a threesome is a threesome as long as both genders are represented. mmf or ffm. You might tell him it is both or none.
2006-07-12 08:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. You're being a good girlfriend and I say stick to your guns.
2006-07-12 08:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋