though with alchohol my confidence is improved but then my girl friend hate alchohol
2006-07-12 08:08:07 · 15 answers · asked by mathew j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. You don't need alcohol to help you. If you do feel you need help then buy a book on how to build up your confidence.
2006-07-12 08:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Gertie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not drink, if you need alchohol to boots up your confidence, you have problem. She is your girlfriend, you do not have be shy in front of her, be yourself. Think about you overcome the fear to asked her out, and she went out with you which means she likes you. Why are you be shy in front you. You do not have to do anything to improve the relationship, just do not be shy called her and tell her how do you feel about her. Take her out for dinner, take long walk with her and watch the sunset with her.
2006-07-12 08:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by xzhou11377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brush your teeth AT LEAST 2x per day. Bath daily. Clean and trim your nails. Keep the crust off your feet. Cut the hair off of your neck. Get a regular hair cut (at least once every 3 weeks.) Use American Crew pomade. Use mouth wash. Tame bodily hairs. Brush your teeth. Shower regularly (use soap.) Use deordorant. (Try that Axis stuff)...
In other words, if your breath and body didn't smell so bad, you might have a chance. And if your hands and feet weren't so crusty and dirty she might not be repulsed when you touch her.
Shape up and groom yourself...!
2006-07-12 08:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should realy try to open up towards your girl by talking to her about wut makes u feel shy about and see if u can get over the fear of being out there. And by drinking it wont change it because she doesnt like for u to drink and that only may work for a while but after the hang over you are back to yourself so really its up to u to try diffrent other things. goodluck!
2006-07-12 08:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea great,
TALK TO HER when you are sober, tell her how you feel about her,
if i was a girl i`d hate some drunk slobbering over me telling me how much he loves me.
how you feel if she turned up drunk one day, think about that, or if she gets fed up wiv you drinkin and finds someone else.
WAKEY WAKEY
2006-07-12 11:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hates it then don't do it.Write her a sweet letter expressing your feelings for her.Take her to a park or out to eat.There are plenty of things to do even if you are shy.
2006-07-12 08:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love her then stop with the drinking and men rn't supposed to be shy with their girls.don't be shy be her men and yo own men.i don't know what i'm talkin about
2006-07-12 08:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become a superb ventriloquist and let the dummy talk to her.Don't say 'gottle of gear' tho...she doesn't want the dummy getting drunk aswell.
2006-07-12 08:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a love letter. No emails...
2006-07-18 12:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her through writing or emailing. good luck with that!
2006-07-12 08:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋