My girlfriend and best friend dumped me twice in the last year. I'm really hurting over this one. I feel like I can't live without her. I miss her so much. Should I keep persuing her or just start all over?
2006-07-12 08:06:54 · 29 answers · asked by toddy5390 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Instead of wasting your time missing someone who doesn't feel the same way about you, use it to go out and find someone who will love you.
2006-07-12 08:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by HoneyB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dumped you twice after the first time you should have moved on
relationships end and they hurt when they do but not pushing forward will only make it worse
the sooner you get up and get out there the better you will feel
try doing a new sport or hobby try going someplace you have allways wanted to do think of you and your wants and you will find happiness in yoursel and you may just run into a someone new that will be better for you in the long run
2006-07-12 15:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has dumped you twice, you must be doing something wrong, You must change this in order to get her back, but if she is smart, she won't take you back a third time, since you obviously aren't willing to change for her, but expect her to change for you.
Before you start looking for another relationship, figure out what you did wrong in the past ones. I have a feeling that you were too clingy.
edit: By the way, persuing someone who has obviously stated that they don't want to be around you is called stalking, and can get you jail time, or sent to a mental institution
2006-07-12 15:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't pursue her. Don't do it. The only thing that will ease the pain is time and you not dwelling on the subject. She will probably see it as an annoyance if you do try and get with her because I am sorry to say this but after all she did dump you for a reason, right? Good luck get over it and don't be bitter because that will not help you get into another relationship any time soon
2006-07-12 15:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by j. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something you enjoy to occupy your time and move on. Obviously there is something missing if you were dumped twice. I'm not saying it was you. It could be a number of things. I can tell you from my experience I always found something wrong with every guy I met, 2 really loved me but that wasn't enough, I didn't love them. I am now married to a wonderful man who I don't have any complaints about.
2006-07-12 15:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you CAN live without her. It's just going to take some time. Before long it won't hurt as much, it will be less and less each day. You have to let her go first before you begin healing though.
One day you will be with the RIGHT girl and wonder why you hung on so long to the the other. You can and will get through this. A love lost hurts. We've all been there (or will be there) in our lives. I wish you all the best.
2006-07-12 15:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love sucks doesn't it. Obviously if she has dumped you twice in year she is ready to be where you are emotionally. I lived with out my love for over a year but Ill tell you it hurt less everyday and even though eventually we got back together I prepared my heart in case we didn't. Don't let her suck you in..then be there when she wants you to be...just to get walked on again. I know it feels like there is no reason to get out of bed but trust the sun will rise everyday and life will continue...
2006-07-12 15:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by designsjm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and give it one more try. I mean an honest effort on your part. All those things that she got upset about, make an effort to show her you're willing to do what she wants you to. Buy her a big bouquet of flowers and write a note that says, "I just wanted to see you smile one more time. I feel like I can't live without you. I love you!" This will get you back in the door for a moment. Best wishes
2006-07-12 15:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has dumped you twice in the last year, than maybe she really doesn't want to be with you. I'd definitely start all over! Why would you want to keep setting yourself up for hurt again?
2006-07-12 15:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why she's dumping you if it's because your doing something wrong then change what your doing if she's worth that much to you but if she's dumping you just to play around then get over it find someone else
2006-07-12 15:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Katrina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋