Ok..is it possible for a guy to fall in love after knowing someone for 2 weeks. This guy I have been seeing told me last night he loved me! I am in the process of moving to the town he lives and he is all excited about. He says he can't wait to be able to see when he wants to. Well, this morning my parents freaked out over me moving and what not and he knew about it because they called me on cell to ***** at me for some things. Now mind you I am 31 years old, divorced and temporary staying with my parents. Anway, I am wondering if by the behavior of my parents could have freaked him out. When I talked to him today at lunch it all sounded good. We talked about our wonderful evening last night and how he said he was excited for me to move there so he can see all the time. Now I just tried calling his cell and normal he answers but this time he didn't. Am I reading too much into this? I mean for all that he is saying and now he didn't answer his cell? Tell me guys what do you think?
2006-07-12 07:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by chellebeth75 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chill out take a deep breath. whats 1 missed call? i for one fell in love with my girl after getting to know her after 2 weeks 2 so yes it is possible for him 2 fall in love with you. your 31 yrs old its time to put your foot down and live your life not your parents life they have there own. so take charge and move and get your life started
2006-07-12 09:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by ask n answer me 2 · 10⤊ 4⤋
Chill out. Sometimes we just get busy doing things. I'm sure he'll call you back.
Every person is different. Some can and some can't fall in love in that time.
My grandparents did and they were married until death; four children (and reared through the Great Depression on top of that). She was sixteen and he was twenty-six. Married after a month (love at first sight). As far as we all know, they were both faithful their entire lives.
You have to make the decision yourself -- you are the only person with all the info on him, and no one out here can tell you what his true feelings are.
2006-07-12 15:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by kevrob8008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'm in love with you.
:D j/k.
ok... sorry... what was the question? oh... ok...
Whoa... slow down there: 2 weeks? um... I'm assuming theres really strong feelings going on especially since you just got divorced and all and are probably feeling lonely... I think you need to chill just a bit and step back and look at the situation.
2 weeks is a little short to decide to make major life decisions over. Look: The first 1-3 months of a relationship you're still acting and trying to get to know one another. It's only after a few months that you both let your guards down and REALLY get to know eachother. It's at THAT point that you decide whether things are going to work or not.
So my advice: Slow down. Give it time.
2006-07-12 15:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by agfreeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband told me he loved me after 2 weeks. Of course then I was 16 and he was 18. We are now married have been for 6 years. I would say he might be a little freaked out. Just give him some time and especially since you have children take it slow and make sure it is not just infatuation.
2006-07-12 15:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like the women you are. U are 31 Im sure he's arund the same edge stop thinking like a teenager and grab your self of the reality you live in to, he doesn't loves you he is exited about you thats all if you want to give it up fine but you should keep him interested if you want to start a new relation don't make the same mistake U did with you ex.
2006-07-12 15:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is a bit questionable, but sure it's possible. It was love at first sight for me and my wife. Almost literally. I'm shy and was even moreso then. Weeks after we actually went on a date, we were engaged and 3 months later married. Been going on 14 years and she's still the love of my life.
2006-07-12 15:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, falling in love in two weeks? I doubt it, but who knows. Everyone has a different view on what love is, has he loved every chick he's dated? The call, maybe he was going to the bathroom. Or doing something where he couldn't answer the phone...
2006-07-12 15:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by chefboo210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out about it. Sometimes people are busy and they can't answer the phone at that particular moment. Just try later or leave a message. He'll get back to you. I think he's crazy about you. =0)
2006-07-12 15:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can fall in true love in 2 weeks. It takes longer to get to know someone. You can fall in lust or "think" you're in love.
The best advice is not to read too much into this, he could be busy right now. Also go slow.
2006-07-12 15:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you mistyped and meant 13 not 31. You both sound very childish to me. Two weeks is enough for intatuation, or lust, but love, I hardly think so.
2006-07-12 15:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋