Tell him I have feelings for him? We're not like glued at the hip best friends, but we do talk. If so, how do I go about it. What do I say. Girls, what have you said? Guys, what do you want to hear?
2006-07-12 07:53:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the time time it's something like "you have beautiful eyes" or " you are so gorgeous" or even "we have so much in common do you want to go get some lunch and get to know each other better." believe me I have never had it fail.
2006-07-12 07:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, i am in the same boat you are in. I always thought it was best to tell the person right away exactly how you feel about them. But now, i realize that it tends to scare them off if you spill your guts right away. I have been with my guy for almost a year and the words "i love you" have never been said. I think its about time they are said though. My suggestion, if its what you feel then go ahead and say it. Yesterday I was listening to the radio and Garth Brooks came on.. "So tell that someone that you love. Just what you're thinking of. If tomorrow never comes." I guess its time to take my own advice. After all, if you don't tell them... they may never know. If you do tell them and they leave.. it was probably for the best. Good Luck!
2006-07-12 15:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by it's me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until about another month and say look I know we have been talking for a lil while now but I am just wondering what is your feelings towards me about us you know??? Then he wont really feel the pressure of you saying ohhh I love you and want to be with you forever. Guys dont like to think they are being controlled or smoothered right off the bat and 6 months to them is 2 weeks and to us to damn long to be wondering if he likes us like that or not. Well sweetie hope everything works out for you and good luck on it.
2006-07-12 14:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here's a dead give away, does he smile when you walk up on him if so that means you are already in his heart, and if it were me don't tell him anything just look into his eyes like your his best friend and then keep doing so until you get him alone and do what this one girl did to me she just looked at me and said may I kiss you. Man even though she was just a friend at the time that kiss was so cool. Trust me I'm a guy and that is one kiss I'll never forget!
2006-07-12 15:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might actually be better if you sit down with him at a neutral place, where you both can feel relaxed (but not too noisy), and say, "You know, we've been seeing each other for about 6 months. How do YOU feel about us?"
No pressure, just a simple question. If you just blurt out how you feel about him, it might scare him off. So ask him for HIS opinion about the relationship first.
2006-07-12 15:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out on a date-(you dont have to tell him its a date if that makes it hard for you)-to something you'd both enjoy. If he responds well, then take it from there, let him know you enjoy his company. If he's feeling the same, things will somehow fall into place. Or you could send him a nice sweet card that tells him you feel
2006-07-12 14:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a question of time! It is a question of quality and feelings. Why are you in such a hurry to tell him ANYTHING ? Why don't you let this just build and grow at its own pace - if you have feelings for him and he has them for you, then it will happen. But if you tell him before the relationship is ready, all you will do is bring everything to a crashing halt. Why not just let the relationship develop on its own - and let him tell you when he is ready.
2006-07-12 14:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months . . you should be past that point already. The ending of that sentence should have been . . 'sleep with him' or something like that. If you have feelings for him you need to get it out in the open.. stop hiding behind a friendship.
2006-07-12 14:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have told the truth and guys want to hear the truth.
if you like and are interested in the guy... then just be truthful, don't start your relationship off with lies... if you are just scared to approach him.... then get a card.. or be like here... listen to this.. record a message on your machine or cell phone.. then let him listen to it... that way you won't be on the spot and sweatin bullets@!
Good Luck!
2006-07-12 14:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. 6 months is a long enough time to let someone know you care about them!
2006-07-12 14:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋