At what age?

Question

At what age do you think a man would be at to be in a serious relationship? I mean truly ready to commit.

Answer 1

When he succeeded in his career goals . . .
When he fulfilled his dreams and fantasies. . .
When he accomplished almost everything he hopes for . . .
When you are ready to sign a prenupt . .

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One of my previous Answers . . .

And the way marriages are now-a-day . . . If you are under the age of 25 . . . why are you in a relationship . . . because one of the reasons people divorce is because they are still learning about themselves . . . and they change . . . and because they change they are no longer the person (or you are no longer the person) you've fell in love with.

In the U.S. 50% of all marriages end in divorce . . . If marriaged after the age of 25 . . . 75% end up in divorce if married earlier.

Also, look into a prenupt . . . I know women cringe on it . . . and it is not a trust issue . . . but it is an insurance issue . . . .

It is like auto insurance for marriage . . . no one plans to get into an accident, but if it happens it is nice to have. Marriage is the same thing, but you are more likely to get into a divorce than into an auto accident. Should you have insurance for prevent you from losing half of everything you worked hard to earn. Plus after it is signed . . . place it in a safety deposit box at the bank . . . and forget about it. If you get a divorce the box will come up in the documents of assets . . . but the asset is for you alone.

The main reason . . . of the split up . . . is they didn't fulfill the dreams - fantasies - and career goal. . . . what about your education . . . and career or are you just going to sit around the house and get fat. A secondary reason is because they married so young . . . they didn't live life . . . and wonder "what if . . . " - is the grass greener across the street and cheat.

I tell guys . . . don't get married . . . until you have fulfilled your career goals . . . because if they do . . . their wives are going to complain that you spend too much time at work and don't spend enough time with me. So he spend more time with her and because he didn't work his a** off . . . he won't get that promotion to buy you things later.

Plus when you are young . . . do you really know what love is . . . I didn't . . . what I thought was love was infatuation . . . so don't see the person shortcomings or faults . . . . or if you do . . . you say . . . "isn't that cute he leave his socks all over the floor . . . he soo helpless and I love to help him" . . . but after you get married and are together for a while then it goes . . . "that lazy son of a B***** . . . . he doesn't do anything . . . always leaving a mess . . . watching TV" He done that from the beginning but when you are in a serious serious relationship . . . things change . . . usually the women . . . rarely the men.

I hope you take this into mind . . . don't get into a serious relationship . . . you really should have a boyfriend . . . if you expect to do good in college. . . and I am not talking community college . . . I am talking University . . . you should expect the best of yourself . . . and you will get the best person for yourself later down the line . . . if it is the same person . . . then it is meant to be . . . if not . . . so be it.

Marriage is wonderful . . . but not for everyone . . . if you decide to get married . . . play it safe

Answer 2

That is a tough question. I think you have to look at 2 things:

1. BOYS are not ready to commit. Boys are players and are self-concerned. There are boys out there in their 30s and 40s. boys say "whatever" a lot.

2. MEN are mature (emotionally) and are interested in taking care of a woman and taking on responsibility. This is usually shown through goals and general manners and by taking things like schooling and relationaships seriously. I have known 22 year olds that were men.

does that answer your question?

Answer 3

There was an artical in mens health magazine of december 2004 that states, "Why no man should marry before 25...his prefrontal cortex (PFC) is still developing... That's the part of his brain that's involved in judgement, impulse control, organization, planning, forethought, and learning from mistakes... it won't be fully developed until he's 25."I don't think every man developes at the same rate but according to science it is 25.

Answer 4

65

Answer 5

I was 24 when I was ready. Married for over 2yrs and didn't even look at another girl.

She was 19 when we married... She cheated on me.

So, I think 19 is too young but for me 24 seemed to be right.

Answer 6

Twenty-something

Answer 7

It depends on the person. some 16 -17 others never.

Answer 8

There is no answer because all men become mature at different ages.

Answer 9

early to late 30's

Answer 10

Hint: If he calls you Mommy, he's probably not yet ready.

(If you need to ask this question, he's probably not ready.)