I met this guy that I really like and we have been talking for a while, but one day he saw me with another guy and now he won't talk to me. I called him three times so we can discussed what happened, but he refuses to return my call. What to do?
2006-07-12 07:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by bella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He seems immature. You need a MAN not a BOY. If he can't be grown and talk this out with you. He isnt worth the time and effort you've put into him!
2006-07-12 07:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did not have any sort of agreement with the first guy then you were free to see anybody that you wished. However, he may like you and is now jealous or sees it as a betrayal.
Pursue it until he speaks with you and sort it out. Continue calling or e-mailing. If he refuses to answer then I'm sorry to say - he is not mature enough for a real relationship.
2006-07-12 14:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you were not in a relationship where you mutually agreed to only see one another then forget about him. If he is this jealous now he will be more so if you are in a relationship with him. I would bet that he would be a very controlling b/f and you would have to give up any friends of the opposite sex you may have. Be happy this warning came before you got involved with him!
2006-07-12 14:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's gonna go running off at the sight of another guy it was never gonna last anyway. who runs off like that?? he sounds unsure of himself or insecure. unless you were obviously with this other guy, like a date or making out. if you want to get it off your chest just leave a message and say that he jumped to conclusions, it's not what it looked like but whatever you can take a hint. ps, he lost something good. then say take care and goodbye. don't sound like you have hard feelings...
2006-07-12 14:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, call round to his place so he can't avoid you. explain about the other guy and tell him how you feel about him. i dont know what the situation with the other guy is or anything but pick who you like better, and go after him with all your might. you only live once.
2006-07-12 14:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by rachpower90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is insecure because you were with another guy he is not worth being around.
(Unless of course you were making out with the other dude or something like that.)
2006-07-12 14:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him-You have the right to be with anyone you want to be with-He won't talk to you and he won't even give you the respect to let you explain?
BIG RED FLAG---he is not worth it.
2006-07-12 14:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by michelle5196 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparent, he's insecure. Don't waste your time because this want be the first and last time he act this way.
2006-07-12 14:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just plain silly,, you should be glad he is gone because it sounds like he would have been a controlling person, and do you really want that,,find someone more mature
2006-07-12 14:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by scottfamilytribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know where he goes and what he does to find him and opolgize to him and tell him your side of the story.
2006-07-12 14:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋