Now she is telling everyone that I am gay oe bi-sexual. Some of my friends won't have anything to do with me ? I am usually the guy everyone conciders a true stud. Now my reputation is suffering a serious blow . What should I do ?
2006-07-12 07:23:04 · 22 answers · asked by Evon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you are gay/bisexual, then own up to it. If not, then what the heck were you kissing a guy for?
2006-07-12 07:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why were you kissing another guy? Sexuality shouldnt really be the issue, more the fact that you were kissing someone other than your girlfriend. if your frineds wont have anything to do with you, they clearly arent very reliable. Friends should be there, through thick and thin. Try and explain yourself and make new friends if you continue to be rejected. Rumours are spread all the time, they arent necessarily true.
good luck
2006-07-12 14:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were kissing the guy, because of....what??? Why are you worried about it? You are obviously gay or bisexual, now it's out in the open. No hetero guy would ever kiss another guy unless he is French, I guess. You will just be the gay stud now.
2006-07-12 14:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, that's pretty bad. If they were really your friends, they wouldn't treat you that way. Don't sweat your reputation status. Things will cool off soon enough. Just be the bigger person and let it go. Don't start spreading rumors about her. Pretend nothing ever happened and continue on with things, she will be ticked off that she wasn't able to hurt you the way her seeing you kiss him hurt her. Good luck! Hope it helps.
2006-07-12 14:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you on substances at the time? If not, you need to decide if you want a girlfriend or boyfriend. It's not fair to the girlfriend or guyfriend (for that matter), if you are riding the fence. You also aren't being fair to yourself. It sounds like you're in hiding and confused. Get to know who you are and be proud. NO matter who you are, in this game you're playing, nobody wins.
2006-07-12 14:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not gay or bi then why were you kissing a guy in the first place?
2006-07-12 14:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real question you should ask yourself is why did you kiss the guy in the first place. Would you be happier with men. if not and you want to be straight and it was just curiosity, tell her that and then give it time to sink in. if you'd rather be with men, be honest with her she'll respect you more.
2006-07-12 14:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by allenlynn23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place y were u kissing a guy??
2006-07-12 14:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dydy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even worry about it! Now you don't have to worry about coming out yourself! Now all the guys are gonna wanna be wit you and the girls are gonna wanna be you!
2006-07-12 16:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Al V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll first you shoudn't have kissed a guy second wat else do you think she gonna call u it seems like you gay I think u should get ready for a broken heart cuz she might break up with you.
2006-07-12 14:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋