i never did this oral sex thing before but my bf used to do it with his X and he is dying for me to do it, but im not into the whole oral sex thing and to encourage me my bf got some porn videos and i got put off even more espicailly when the the guy comes and the woman is eating the semen it was so gross how can ladies ceven put that stuff in their mouth isnt it discusting???...ewwww
2006-07-12 07:15:37 · 23 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to swallow the semen. I don't.
A. Ask him to tell you when he's about to ***.
B. When he lets you know continue to suck the head of his penis just from the side so when his semen shoots out it doesn't go into your mouth. He gets the same sensation as if you swallowed(the semen is going to hit the side of your face and in your hair though, but that's why we have soap and shampoo).
C. Click on the site below to tell you "how" to perform oral sex it is an art.
D. For the chick all the way up top who told her to "grow up" chick shut the F@#! Up!
http://cuntinglinguist.blogspot.com/2005/08/good-girls-guide-to-giving-great-head.html
2006-07-13 11:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by CollegeDropIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say definitely talk to him and tell him you aren't comfortable doing it. Some people like doing it and some don't. I know a guy who has been married for 25 years and his wife has never done it. The porn videos aren't going to make it better...if anything they will gross you out and you won't ever want to do it.
Try doing it in the shower or right after he has showered so he's clean, or try putting like whip cream or something on it maybe that will help make it not seem gross.
Tell him to tell you when he is going to come and then you don't have to have it in your mouth.
2006-07-12 14:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1: DON"T EVER DO ANYTHING YOU DON"T WANT TO DO!!
#2: Please do not take pornos seriously. I have seen many and most of them are nothing like real sex. You have to feel comfortable with someone in every way before you can plunge into unprotected oral sex.
#3: When you feel that you are ready to try oral sex, start slow. Get comfortable with using your hands on him first, then make sure that the areas you intend to use (on both of you...i.e. mouth, shaft, etc.) are clean, and finally make sure that if you don't want the final result in or on you that he is willing to obey those wishes and use a towel.
Personally, I feel that oral sex is much more personal than regualr sex. If you intend to use protection, please be sure to use the profolactic the WHOLE time, as stds can travel through all the secretions of sex...not just the last one!!
#4: PLEASE DO NOT DO ANYTHING YOU DON"T WANT TO DO!!!!
2006-07-12 14:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of young ladies are a little penis-phobic. But keep in mind that porn is well ... raunchy. The guy doesn't have to finish his business in your mouth. Have fun with it and see what you can come up with. Try it once for your b/f's sake and then if you don't like it .... well oh well.
2006-07-12 14:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arn't comfortable then it's not going to be worth it for you or your guy. at least not if he's a decent guy. Porn is probably not the way to get you all into it either. If you don't want to, then don't... maybe later in your relationship or later with a different guy or something it won't seem as bad.
2006-07-12 14:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a personal choice. I give my boyfriend oral sex. because I know he likes it, not because I like to do it.
Try to mimic what they did in the movies, he will like it. Try using flavored condoms, that might take your mind off of it. Also try kissing on it and around it, it will kind of get you in the mood.
As far as the ***... I don't swollow it. I also think it is kind of gross. Just get up and wash it off. Or have him jump in the shower with you.
Try whatever you are comfortable with, them try some advanced moves!!!
2006-07-12 14:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cierra Janece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not as gross as you think - the first time have mountain dew around it makes the taste not so weird and after that you just get used to it
2006-07-12 14:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD! I can't believe most of these answers! Do it only if you feel like it. But obviously, if ur asking something like that, u don't ! F*** him off if he's pressuring u. The thing I love most about my guy is that he love and respects my feelings. Talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't really know how you feel.
2006-07-12 14:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Adina Dimancescu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't that bad at all...the first time is weird but after that you will get use to it.It really is cool I mean doing that because you're making the person you care about and love feel good.
2006-07-12 14:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by sweethp1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it. Most guys won't stay with a chick who doesn't give head.
2006-07-12 14:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋