I have joined and online dating service, and now i'm faced with this question. I'm not interested in casual sex at this point & i'm not looking for marriage either...just something in between. I just want a relationship that will progress and see what happens. I have a VERY difficult time reading men's thoughts since I've been lied to so much in the past....please share any available tips. Thank you
2006-07-12 07:08:11 · 7 answers · asked by curious1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if he wants to come over to your place or see if you can go to his place. while there tell him that your not ready for sex and that you just want to take the relationship slow, if he gets an attitude and stops calling then you know what happened, but if he seems understanding and willing to wait then you know that he wants you.
2006-07-12 07:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by lanell s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is first going to decide if you are OK enough to have sex with. If so, he'll hang around for at least a little while, to see if he can get some.
If he JUST wants sex, it's likely he won't hang around for more than a little while.
If the guy actually likes you, he will hang around a while longer - even if he's not getting any - unless he's really clever and is willing to wait for it.
Anyway, you'll know after you have sex with him - if he really likes you - there he is still hanging around trying to make you happy even though he already got what he wanted.
Simple!
2006-07-12 07:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to enjoy life for a while. Start observing the male species and see the things you like and the things you don't like. You will always find guys that just want the one thing but there are some jewels out there.
2006-07-12 07:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE IT SLOW.JUST HANG OUT WITHOUT THE SEX FOR A WHILE, SEE HOW HE ACTS THEN. NADA WRONG W/ THAT. PUT IN PROFILE THAT WHAT U SAID ABOVE.MANY MEN ARE JUST ON THEIR FOR SEX, BUT I HAVE MET SOME GOOD ONES, NOT NESSICARILY ONLINE, HOWEVER. !FYI!
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I "HEARD" WAS A GOOD ONE, FOR RESPECTABLE MEN AND WOMEN.SPEAK ON PHONE OR ONLINE FOR SOME TIME FIRST. BE CAREFUL AND TRY TO STAY STRONG, REMEMBER THERE ARE ALOT OF FISH IN THE SEA.GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-12 07:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by GENUINE HARBOR AREA BRAT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well become friends first. therefore there won't be the physical part, but that will come later if you guys decide you like each other. take it slow. if the guy becomes pushy with kissing or what not then you got a problem then he just likes you for the physical not you.
2006-07-12 07:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by kimber g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to talk to them on the phone or something... they will get to the point of what they are after...
dont come right out and ask them, they will lie to ya
2006-07-12 07:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Grin Reeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
impossible :], you will never ever be able to find out.. 90% of guys just want sex.
2006-07-12 07:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋