he likes it rough, he likes me to control him, he's likes to get head, but i don't know if i'm pleasing him..for some reason i get really nervous....what are some good techiques as far as giving head and a hand job?
2006-07-12 06:54:35 · 23 answers · asked by jada_24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL THE WAY YOU DO THIS IS YOU START RUBING ALL OVER THEM THEN YOU START FEELING ALL OVER THEM MAKE THEM FEEL REAL GOOD THEN YOU START WITH A SOFT KISS THEN GO DOWN ON THEM KISSING THEM ALL OVER AND THEN WHEN YOU GET TO THAT THING YOU CALL A PENIS SLOWLY TEASE THEM WITH YOUR MOUTH AND THEN GO TO TOWN ON IT
2006-07-12 06:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok lets see...just out of curiousity is he pleaseing you as well?
Reason why I am asking is because you need mental stimulation in order to gim him phyical stimulation. So that is the first thing.
Most (and I say most not every man) like all kinds of things....you will just have to probe and test with him. Do different things to him. You will know what he likes if you can read your mans body language and the soungs that come out of him. If he like it rough than be on top of him and keep his arms pinned, if he likes it rough and you are worried about him watching you while you are trying new things out with him, then blindfold him he will love the thrill of not knowing what you are doing and or what is coming next. It is a bit difficult to have a discussion about giving a ******* or hand job online talking to someone but I would make him crazy with desire by blindfolding him and making him wonderfing what you are doing next, and it will help you be yourself with your face expressions and the like because he cannot see what you are doing. Hope that helps hon'
2006-07-12 07:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Barnes & Noble and buy one of those sex-for-men books.
Different men like different things. As for me, nothing pleases me more than good conversation with a smart, pretty woman. After some years, the best memories I've got are those of good chats and not the sex.
2006-07-12 06:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow dont think about just do it but when you give head plz. dont scrape with the teeth that will hurt just dont look at him just focus on what you're doing as far an hand job do it in the dark until you feel more comfortable if you dont know if you're plzing him ask him simple as that
2006-07-12 06:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes not complaining then you shouldnt worry. if you want to get relaxed faster have a few drinks with him . worked for me before and then you wont even realize and be in control well thats how i am i dont know but it usually works. well if you guys slept together then try different positions and when going down on him rub his gnouch and spit on his dick. = ] hope it helps
2006-07-12 07:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by piggystizzles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of the controlling and dominating part is to not care at all what he thinks and just do whatever you want to do. When you're controlling him, he's submissive, and you're free to do what -you- want. Don't be nervous. He wants you to do what -you- want to do. It's what turns him on.
As for techniques, combine the two. Rub him on your tongue and lips. It works wonders.
2006-07-12 07:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mikkel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
belive me when i tell you this i'm a guy.now wit that said,as for as giving head i just slide his cock in you nice a warm and wet mouth, and slowly but nasty slurp it like you would want him to slurp you baby girl.to put in short terms the poisition 69 with you on top and him on bottom.e-mail me back
2006-07-13 03:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by stagmatic05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR if you do all that and you are still nervous,then the prob is not likely you. just do only what you want, if he wants more, no worry he'll ask for more.
2006-07-12 07:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by TO FAST TO FURIOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
but every man has a different thoughts about the way he loves as i think.
2006-07-12 07:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by blue rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it less and try to just act natural. If he won't be specific about what he wants, you can try guessing and seeing how he reacts.
2006-07-12 06:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋