ok there is this guy that i really like but he is like 4 years older than me! i mean i no that is no prob but when i told him i liked him he said he liked me too! BUT i no he didnt mean it! wat can i do??? i mean i really want him to like me???
2006-07-12 06:51:32 · 29 answers · asked by breezy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself....he will either like you or he won't...you've already told him that you like him, so the ball is in his court...if he makes the next move, you'll know the feeling is mutual...otherwise, it may be that he doesn't like you in the same way that you like him...
2006-07-12 06:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that is 4 years older than you really has no reason to tell you he likes when he really doesn't. If they don't like you, they wont care enough to spare your feelings or to give you false hope.
DO NOT act desperate. That is a major turn off, and no guy likes it. Just act completely normal (even if it kills you) until he brings up the issue. Maybe seeing the real you will make him interested...
2006-07-12 13:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kera Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really does like you there is a guy that is 6 years older than me and we both like each other but we cant be together till im 16!! Just ask him if it was the truth that he told you if he truly likes you it will be ok but if he doesn't then tough luck
2006-07-12 13:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out on two dates with him. On the third date introduce him to your friends and make it a group thing, See how he reacts to you in the presence of your friends. On the fourth date bring him home to dinner or a movie with the family. if he is afraid to come because of your dad or your mom. He does not care about you and knows that your parents will see right through him. So do not waste your time with him if he does not come home, because in the end which will be very soon, he will end up using you and hurting you.
On the other hand if he comes home with you then I say go for it, you are safe.
2006-07-12 13:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm. My bf is like 6 years older than me . and sadly he doesnt know it he thinks were 4 years apart and it kills me deep inside but im not about to tell him now. the point is show him that you are mature enough for him if you are. persuade him to like you. ask to hang out with him and show him yourself and his friends. thats the best i can think of . And stay down to EARTH . and maybe friends will start of then get closer and maybe dating and if you guys become close youll know if he likes you if your able to tell him what guys you like and if they like you and always flirt put in ways that your better of with him but not now later. Everything takes times never rush into anything because what you expected right away may not be it
2006-07-12 13:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by piggystizzles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are going to have to say or do something that makes him realize you would like more than just a friendship. Beating around the bush gets you nothing but calluses. Get going and good luck!
2006-07-12 13:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if he didnt mean it. 4 years is a big difference at your age, but you have to let things happen, you cant force someone to like you. You have to be yourself and if its going to happen, it will. Good luck
2006-07-12 13:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by only14life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't the right thing to do - do not tell him that you like him. Express yourself in another way that is not obvious to him. Do something nice to him everytime, try doing what he does [and make sure it is right to you and your standards], DO NOT FLIRT - flirting makes serious damage on your reputation!
Do something good to others - his friends, siblings, whatever... he will like you eventually because you have done good to his whatevers! And best of all, try being yourself - all the positive, expose it... do not do anything wrong - or you'll lose him!
2006-07-12 13:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by ariayvs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok say wanna go out on saturday or any day then if he say k then u noe ur set but then it get hard u have to get to noe 1 another but of course ive never been on a date but i watch tv u should try it ps on saturday watch cartoonnetwork from 8:00 to 11:00 this saturday it all naruto but next watch it
2006-07-12 13:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to be friends with him and once he gets to know you his opinion may change.Just remember you can't make someone like you.Also don't try too hard because that's a big turn off to most guys.
2006-07-12 13:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by sweethp1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋