i am absolutly shy with guys and i would like to be more extroverted (my mom told me i was introverted--) so what can i do to change ???
2006-07-12 06:51:28 · 14 answers · asked by spider-joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well guys are not extra terrestrials to shy away from!!!
some guys face the same problem when in company of girls.
so start talking gradually.speak about your hobbies,ask his,talk about sports(most guys are sports fanatics),ask about his fav football team,fav player etc.
keep yourself well informed about the current news,so that u can add to the knowledge.
also read and remember some good jokes.cracking non controversial jokes may break the ice.
and ya,be a good listener too!!!
hope this helps.
2006-07-12 07:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how you feel, im shy too. I think the best thing you can do is try not to be too confident, or it will look false or show as arrogance. Accept that your a quiet person - just smile and be yourself. Im sure you have loads of great qualities that are way more important than being loud.
Good luck - and remember that one day you will find your soulmate.
2006-07-12 06:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that use to be me before but now im not at all like that i really dont know what happened i guess it was that i built up my confidence by reminding myself that i only have one life to live and i shouldnt and wont live it alone also being a flirt is fun and if u only have one life to live live it to the fullest with risks plus i realized some guys arent really that bad like i imagined and i became comfortable with them.. the first thing to remember is that try to be a friend first after that step mayb youll ease your way out of that shyness
good luck
2006-07-12 07:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by grantd2089 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be shy about guys - remember, guys are people too - like us. Try being outgoing - if you're new to guys, then experience them [not the other thing ok?]. You have to know what a guy is being about and his strong and weak spots.
Try being yourself - remove the shyness, it's pretty easy... and besides - being outgoing has its perks!
2006-07-12 07:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by ariayvs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not shy at all. I look for clues. Is he reading? What kind of book is it? Have I read the book? then go up"Hey that's an awesome book! Although I wanna strangle him for the cliffhanger ending." You get the picture right?
2006-07-12 06:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Yumi Sauwatari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off small. Talk to guys when your friends are there.
Talk to ones you're not attracted to, at first, then you'll be less nervous.
Practice makes perfect!
2006-07-12 06:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink a tikila and wore a tight top!
guys will be shy 2 talk 2 u then!
2006-07-12 06:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you must pay attention so you know what they are talking about so you have something to say. you just have to say stuff out loud without to much thinking if you do that then you'll talk yourself out of talking to them. kindof funny in a way isnt' it.
2006-07-12 07:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry thats part of your personality...nothing wrong with being shy...i'm shy myself....some guys like that, hey you never know!!
2006-07-12 06:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the risk and just say f*** it
you'll have to do it anyway if u really want a bf
2006-07-12 06:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by UFC middleweight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋