I have a girlfriend who's first boyfriend was abusive and controlling. So by no stretch of the mind shes pretty cynical towards relationships and "doesn't like" dating (she does she's just still bitter). So she insinuates to me that she wants to break up/take a break, so I go ahead and tell her we should. She thanks me for being understandable and starts acting like she did before we dated (giving me the "look", flirting, showing alot of interest, etc.). I figured I should give her time to think things out, be her friend. Recently she started acting even more distant and today we had plans but she never answered her phone (of which I called only twice). So it's like total abandonment. Look I know it's probably over so you don't need to tell me that, it already bugs me. Im just looking for some explanation for all this (no I wasn't needy or anything like that. She was happy.)
2006-07-12 06:38:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in an bad relationship before and then I got an amazing bf but didn't realize it until it was to late and he gave up on me. I made him pay for all the other guys mistakes. Don't give up on her. Do what she wants. If she wants space then give her space if she wants to see you then see her. I know it's hard but in the long run she'll realize what a good thing she does have.
2006-07-12 06:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by ....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has some issues she needs to deal with. So don't call her unless she calls you. When she is ready and if you are still around, give her another chance. You sound like a good guy, obviously she is not at a point in her life where she can appreciate good guys. I am sure something better will come along. just go out with your friends and try to forget her. keep yourself busy, so you won't get the urge to call her.
2006-07-12 13:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well man i dont think its over because i have a friend we dated and now we r just friend. But u know she still makes moves on me nd grabs my crotch and all other stuff so just keep hang out wit her she will eventually start liking u again. But u keep callin her because she might of forgot to get her phone when she left somewhere!!! And leave a voicemail telling her wat u were suppoosed to do today. But dont give up man ull get her back.
2006-07-12 13:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Chad Davenport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to remember that girls go through mood more then men . one minute she all over you the next she is kicking you out of the house . if she really like you she will always come back and if you can handle it .. you will do better in the long run.
2006-07-12 13:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run... messed up girls are just that messed up... there are many that are not and life is too short to try to fix a leaky fishbowl.
2006-07-12 13:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Tequila Gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's woman...what more explanation is required?
Women are an emotional roller coaster...
Get over it...You're not going to get that to change so just get used to it....
Men are men...Women are women...
That's why we have seperate bathrooms...
:-)
2006-07-12 13:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes one of those girls ( once she has you totally wrapped she doesnt want you anymore but still wants your attention ) find someone new!!
2006-07-12 13:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not gurl issues she was using u she didn'y know what she wanted so she used u
2006-07-12 13:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by dark angle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just don't want to make a cominment or either she was just scared.
2006-07-12 13:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋