im married, but want to experiment with women also. I have found one with the same interest, and we've discussed getting together sometime. So when we get together, then what? How do we "get started"? And is there a way to let my hubby watch without him having contact with the other woman??
2006-07-12 06:34:10 · 7 answers · asked by Jenintn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband is totally ok with this. He says I'm in charge. I'm just not a "take charge" kind of person, though.
2006-07-12 10:08:08 · update #1
I'm not gay, either. I'm very happily married. If I was in a bad/rocky marriage, then I would never consider this. But he thinks its hot, and I think it woul be hot to do a woman!!
2006-07-12 10:10:06 · update #2
that fact that both of you have been talking about it...well, you're well underway. nature will take its course if you continue. yeah, break out the wine if desired, have a quiet evening together, and naturlly gravitate to each other...don't be afraid to touch. thefeeling will arise in both of you by itselff, just go with it. plan this in advance with your husband he could either leave you alone, be a fly on the wall, or combination of both. agree that he will not be involved except as spectator. talk about hisfeelings about it BEFORE and after.
2006-07-12 07:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by unintendedmilf 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to have hubby have contact with the other woman, I'd suggest not letting him watch. If he wants to be involved, give him a detailed lick-by-lick account afterwards while stroking him, or something like that. Things are going to be awkward enough between you and the other woman the first time without having an audience to worry about. If it works out and youd ecide to do it again, another fairly non-intrusive way to include him would be to video it and let him watch the video -- just be very careful where the video tape goes.
What is the other woman's attitude to your hubby, to him watching, or the the 3-some I supect he's hoping will happen eventually?
As for getting started: kiss, hug, undress each other, make out. It really isn't that different to doing it with a guy. Just don't both spend all the time waiting for the other one to make the first move.
2006-07-12 07:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly my concern is if your husband is ok with you doing this without him being involved. Most guys usually want to be in the act when two women are involved can;t blame them its lots of fun.I can tell you that if you do this firstly you must find someone you are comfortable with not just someone you can find to do it with. secondly just be natural you must have some form of chemistry having sex with a woman you will soon realize that is a lot more satisfying that you might imagine. I like it both ways and I can tell you that once you start you woun;t want to stop-.you can let him watch but if hes in the room both of you will eventually want the other to be apart of it because its so darned hott.. firstly you should talk it out as much as possible with each other before doing this. personally I think he should be involved so that way there is no guilty feeling. ok.goodluck.....
2006-07-12 06:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please..Don't listen to these other people that are knocking what you want to do. Its perfectly fine. As long as all the parties involved have an understanding about what is not to happen an dis to happen then it should be fine. Maybe break out a bottle of wine or a couple beers and just go with the flow. If it supposed to happen it will happen. Don't force it to happen
2006-07-12 06:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by nonamedcreature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can absolutely guarantee you that you will regret your decision. Bringing a 3rd party into a committed relationship for "fun" will create feelings you have not begun to consider.
If you want to have no-strings attached sex with another woman, then end your relationship and hook up with the woman, otherwise give some thought as to why you really feel the need to if you are truly satisfied in your current relationship.
2006-07-12 06:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Ceroulious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it the same way you would with your husband start with a kiss let it flow from there.
2006-07-12 06:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by candidworker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you are even thinking of doing this proves to me that you are no longer straight!Why?!A relationship ought to be between a man and a woman!
2006-07-12 06:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋