well my Bf said this in the middle of having sex...........he felt like having a threesome with my BF!.but he saw i started crying and got mad at him so he blamed it on the reason that he was just horny!!!!!!! But i remember that when he was asking me this he told me he always wanted to have a threesome but was afraid of what i would think, also just to test him out at that same moment i was very heartbreoken and asked him if my exboyfreind could join! he got really mad and begun crying............then i told him i was just testing him out that i would never be crazy enough to do such a thing that night we didn't sleep at all both of us crying and he opoligized!
2006-07-12 06:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Threesomes can be a lot of fun, but everyone has to be O.K. with it, have a set of rules, and open minded. If not your relationship will not survive. Sometimes it is just a fantasy, and should be left that way. you both will have to decide.
2006-07-12 06:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men fantasize about a threesome. And Women fantasize about things of the matter as well. It's a curiousity thing as well as them thinking they are king by have 2 women at the same time. When truth of the matter is. He can't handle one. So what ends up happening is, he wants you to have sexual acts with your friend so he can get his thrills from watching it. get him a lesbaian porn and let him watch that. Men wouldn't want another man sticking his thing in you and you wouldn't want him sticking it in your friend. Unless you are curious as well about being with women don't do this. If you know he isn't into your friend and he just wants to expeiriment and you want to as well it might be a good thing. Spicing up your sex life is awesome and there are so many things you can do to acheive this. Buy some sex toys and have fun with him and them. But you have to think too, he might be interested in your friend... so this is something to explore too!
2006-07-12 06:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by JCL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double standards are always the problem when it comes to sex. Men want to have threesomes with other women but when the woman suggests another man it's, "HELL NO", I'm not gay no man is getting in the same bed with me. It is more acceptable to have two women than two men.
2006-07-12 06:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by h.coleman7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok. It seems like he has an attraction to your best friend. I wouldn't trust that situation. You wouldn't want to have a threesome with her and he starts to get feelings for her and leave you. It seems like he's not far from doing it now.
2006-07-12 06:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does want a threesome...so I say if you do...make sure you get your threesome too! If you aren't into that..then tell him no...if he can't live with that..then move on.sounds like you've got problems with your relationship..BTW..you both should grow up and stop trying to test each other..say what you mean and mean what you say..
2006-07-12 06:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality. With her wanting to have it with her mother is just immoral and sick!!!!
2006-07-14 19:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not ok. that is just nastttttty. how can a guy that cries want a threesome? ok he needs a life and he shouldnt blame it on being horny.
2006-07-12 06:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes can be great fun.
2006-07-12 06:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by Scound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... because once you realize it is a mistake, the damage is already done.. You both might lose the best thing you have ever had.
2006-07-14 08:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if u trust him and he wants to try it ! who knows u might like it!
2006-07-12 06:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋