he says that he's grounded but when i call his sister says that he's at a friends house? so either he not grounded and lying to me or he just doesn't want to hang out w/ me anymore
2006-07-12 06:15:51 · 30 answers · asked by jax 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so my b/f friend tells me that he's grounded but yet he'll still be able to go out w/ his friends but i ask him if wants to hang and he's like im grounded. i've dated this guy for 14 and 1/2 months now and he was never like this b4.
2006-07-12 06:30:27 · update #1
Yeah, if he is lying about that what else would he lie about...this is not a healthy relationship...and deception is hard to ask someone to change within themselves...I'd move on and let him do his own thing...its not worth the heart ache.
2006-07-12 06:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with it. If he's lying it's not because he doesn't want to hurt you, but because he doesn't trust that you wouldn't get angry that he'd rather be some place else than with you. He's lying to protect himself, not your feelings.
It may be that your relationship has run its course...but if you talk to him, and let him know it's okay if he wants to spend time with other friends or doing other things, then possibly you can get back on track...just realize and be okay with the fact that he may not want to spend every free moment with you...and hopefully you've got outside friends and interests as well...
2006-07-12 13:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dependency is a turn off, not a turn on. A relationship with a man should enrich your life, not define it. Clinging is not a synonym for feminine. The stronger and more independent you are, the better your relationships will be.
2006-07-12 13:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ivy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your own friends.
Maybe he doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you that he'd like to hang out w/ his boys, so its easier to lie. (which doesn't make it good)Tell him to be straight out with you, now on the same token you can't act like a posessive girlfriend. Let him have his space when he wants it, and YOU DO THE SAME.
2006-07-12 13:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by cinnamon_latin_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Looks like you're in a sticky situation. Just ask him about it. If he tells you the truth good! If he doesn't. Give him time. He'll tell you eventually. Or maybe he's just not the right guy for you. :-)
2006-07-12 13:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by iloveicecream103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him one chance to change. Explain how you feel and ask him to be more attentive. If he doesn't care enough to change even after you've explained how his neglect hurts your feelings, then you need to move on and find someone who will treat you the way you desire. There is someone out there who will make you feel special; you just have to make yourself available for them to find you...and you have to do your share of looking, too.
2006-07-12 13:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time!! There are better people to choose from. Don't sell yourself short. If he is lying or his sister is lying to you, then why would you want to be around them. Good luck. Be strong and dump that loser!!!!
2006-07-12 13:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by been there 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new b/f that likes to hang out. but then again that's what friends are for.
2006-07-12 13:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by babybear_562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wants to see his friends too. Give him some space to breath, and tell him to not lie to you.
2006-07-12 13:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him for some time so that you can think of your future and try to become special so that his attention is dirverted towards you
2006-07-12 13:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by suraj06k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋