2006-07-12 05:36:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Its only a problem if you make it one-- anyways who says that age is important?? surely its how you feel about her that matters more....
It's only when you get passed that 80 year age then it does cos u may well expire long before she does-- or the other way around.. there have been many women that have outlived men-- so if ur not thinking that far ahead i wouldn't worry hun
2006-07-12 06:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are actually a lot of problems that you can have. There are a lot of people who can be really judgmental about these things. It sucks but some people don't understand that someone can be a different age and yet the same maturity.
Also, it can be weird between people if they are not only different ages but in different stages of life. 5 years is a lot if there is college in between two people, because that's just one of those life-changing experiences.
In most cases though, the problems are easily worked through if both people are committed to each other. There are problems with every single type of relationship, even if two people were born on the same day. And as for other people judging you, only you two are the ones that can really make it work or not. Good luck!
2006-07-12 06:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the older you get the less it matters. My fiance and I are 10 years a part. For the most part age is a state of mind. You can have an older person who asks like a teenager, or you can have the reverse scenario. We meet in the middle. It all depends on the person, and the person's maturity level. Who cares what other people think. When it comes down to it, the only people that matter are you and your partner.
2006-07-12 06:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by ak517969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely none. My partner is 5 years older then me, we live together, and enjoy doing the same sort of things. As long as you have things in common age shouldnt be a problem.
2006-07-12 05:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one is 15 and the other 20 - there could be quite a few problems inlcuding jail time. If one is 70 and the other 75 - then none at all.
The older you get, the less age difference matters
2006-07-12 05:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by TheDoctor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more or less problems then someone who is the same age. Be positive!!
My hubby is 8 years older then me and we get along great!
2006-07-12 05:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how you could have any problems from an age gap!! My man is 54 and i am 34 and we are very h*a*p*p*y. We have a great sex life and wonderful children. Enjoy your relationship and don't let others tell you different x
2006-07-12 05:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who your partner is. if it is a guy then he might control you too much but if the girl is the one who's older than you then she might act a bit weird and you'd feel like you were never good enough for her. but really its not the age that's important in relationships. it's who you love and how much you love them and how much they love you. age doesn't mean anything in a relationship if your hearts are together for ever.
2006-07-12 05:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by sugarpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely none. As long as you both have some of the same interests there shouldn't be any problems.
2006-07-12 05:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lovinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both over 21, shouldn't be any problems because of age.
2006-07-12 05:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by tweetymay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋