2006-07-12 05:20:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Damn hey if you want him do the need to know thing but if you really want to tell and be with him be honest that's the only way to be
2006-07-12 05:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by just_gethere 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT! when the baby is born (if you plan to keep it) get a DNA test of the other guy. If it comes back negative, keep your mouth shut and continue on with your life. If it is, then you better say something quick.
If you plan to stay with this guy for the rest of your life, don't say anything. People who confess, only confess for selfish reasons, not because they are doing something right. Cheaters deserve to live with that guilt eating at them anyway.
last bit of advice, which is probably best anyway, break up. If you don't feel strongly enough about someone to talk to them about sex you are having with them, you don't really love them. Stop wasting his time, stop wasting yours. Let him find someone who wants to be faithful. And you can find someone you love so intently you would never even think to cheat on them.
2006-07-12 12:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to the guy, and the kids to find out who the father really is. People do such sketchy things and then are shocked when they have to pay the consequences.
Do yourself,the boyfriend and the kids a favor, only have sex with the one you're with, it'll stop a lot of embarrassing questions later on.
Good luck.
2006-07-12 12:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by cookiemnster73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that your 4 kids may not be your husband's? Whoa....that is a major issue!
You need to verify this and share the information with him. It isn't fair to expect him to raise your 4 babies if he isn't the daddy, and what about their real Dad??? if he isn't the one living with them. Fess up girl. How would you feel if the roles were reversed?
Ask your doctor what you need to do, what tests to have done, and how to break the news to him if the results indicate he isn't their Dad. I think you need to find out just for your own peace of mind.
Good luck!
2006-07-12 12:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by nighthawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth and dont go on one of those talk shows to tell him. You don't want to air your dirty laundry on national television. Have him do dna tests to find out if he is the father. And next time, no matter how bad your sex life is, don't go screwing around on him. That isn't going to fix your sex life. Talk to him about it and maybe you guys can do something to spice it up.
2006-07-12 12:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and talk to him and tell him that you didn't think your sex life was all that great and you cheated and their is a possibility that tha baby is not his. If he loves you he will understand. good luck
2006-07-12 12:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man it's not your fault he sucked in bed and had to find pleasure elsewhere but it is your fault for not using protection if you knew you still loved your man but weren't trying to anybodies else kids Don't tell your man tell the other guy and get a DNA test for him if its his still don't tell your man father is not the one who inseminates but the one who loves and nourishes it will ruin your relaionship forever after that he will not trust you at all
2006-07-12 12:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by cynthgzmn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the Maury Show... that's what all the stupid cheaters with questionable babies do.
2006-07-12 12:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you do no who the baby daddy is rigth. it look like you need to just tell him about it in let him no why you did it ..in take this from me your sex life will be better...
2006-07-12 13:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better take that one to the grave keep it a secret,and figure out how to restore your sex life if you love him.
2006-07-12 12:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by cluv032003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋