MY boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 months and he always say he wants to be with me forever and he love me very much. Whenever we talk we speak about us in the future and everything is like When WE do this or when this time happens...Whenever i ask him to tell me how much he love me he can't really explain. he says that everyone has thier own definition of love. I know that he love me bout is he ready for a Long term relationship or marriage?
2006-07-12 05:15:26 · 14 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would force him to define love because i dated this girl once who said she loved me but it turned out she just wanted to steal my wallet (and she did but there wasn't much money in it)
2006-07-12 05:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by william the wizard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got to this point in the relationship with my boyfriend, and so one day I was taking a bath cuz my back hurt (by the way I had only been with him for about 6 months), and he was sitting there, (not in the tub with me, just sitting there talking) and I asked him to marry me. I told him, I really want to get married. He was a little taken aback at first, but then we decided to elope the next week. It didn't exactly work out like that b/c I just had to tell everyone, but we got married 3 wks later, and have been married for 2 years now. Still happy, with one child, and one on the way. Good luck!
2006-07-12 05:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you have anything to worry about. He says he loves you and always includes you in the future plans, He may not be ready for marriage, but he sounds serious about being in the relationship with you at this time in his life and down the road, too. I would say don't worry about things going bad until they do. Just enjoy being in love.
2006-07-12 05:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but this technique works with all ages with hold all sexual activities and see how long he last and that will tell you if he wants a long term relationship or if he just want to have a good time sexing you.
P.S. A wise man told me along time ago when I was a teenager whatever you get out of that man in a year is the same thing your gonna get out of him next year......
(the wise man) My DADDY
2006-07-12 05:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by aboitoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's ready for long term, then you have talked about marriage and kids. Start the conversation and see what he says. If ya'll do decide to marry, don't forget premarital councelling!
2006-07-12 05:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you he loves you and he shows you that he loves you ...what the hell difference does it make if he can't put a value on the love he has for you. This is outrageous and I think your being silly. You love and are being loved...what the hell else do you want?
2006-07-12 08:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, when you bring up these things, it seems obsessive to guys. If he spends time with you, and enjoys that time, it will eventually come up in his mind. dont sweat.
2006-07-12 05:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Doggzilla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the heck would any of us know what is going on in someone else's head/?????
2006-07-12 05:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is
go ahead dear
best wishes to both of you
2006-07-12 05:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes marry him
2006-07-12 05:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋