my old boyfriend is going out with some one else and all i can think about is him nd i wanted to tell him untill i herd about the friend . what to do?
2006-07-12 04:38:55 · 32 answers · asked by chevon g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Old boyfriend" translates to "ex-boyfriend" which means that whomever he is going out with is no business of yours. Not anymore, anyway.
Think about this - if you were dating some guy you were wild about and his old ex-girlfriend started pestering him to tell him that he was "all she could think about" and that she wanted him back as her boyfriend - how would YOU feel ?????
Leave it -- and him -- alone. He has moved on and so should you. The only way to get over him is to give up on him and start living your own life. Go out! Do things you know are fun! Have a party (don't invite him)! Do some 3-minute dating gigs. As your friends to set you up with some hot guy. Do anything and everything to stop concentrating on your ex.
Eventually you will find that you are, indeed, over him and happier than ever.
2006-07-12 04:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never be able to move on if all you do is think about him
i've been in your shoes before, and sure it breaks your heart and makes you miserable when you see him with other girls, but why can't you be the one that's happy?
he's moving on and one thing about guys is that they don't think about their past relationships and miss their ex's like girls do... they're busy forgeting about them and finding new girls
you'll be so much happier if you move on and find someone else... believe me, even if you think that you ex was the love of your freaking life, there is always someone else out there that can love you and treat you so much better and can make you a million times happier
love is blind, but you need to open your eyes and look around to see all the other fish out there because theres nothing worse than a one sided relationship
2006-07-12 04:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl - Put your head back on and move on!!! What benefits are you getting out of sulking and thinking about him when he's with another girl. You need to turn that feeling into something positive not just to find another boyfriend but for yourself so you won't be miserable.....Good Luck
2006-07-12 04:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go hun. Maybe in time things will change. Maybe you will meet up again and things will be better. You never know but for right it is best to hang out with the girls and just have a good time.
2006-07-12 04:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some u love to do to keep u busy.
Then go crazy over a celebrity or another person.
who is ur number 2.
I been through this before.
2006-07-12 04:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ter bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can still tell him. maybe he still thinks about u too, and he got this new 1 to get over you. it is worth a shot, i mean hey if after you tell him and he rejects u then move on he obviously has and you will find some one and there the cycle begins!
2006-07-12 04:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with all his friends, and make sure that while you do it, you rave about how big their units are, compared to your ex. Tell them he had just a tiny thing, barely visible.
Revenge is the best way to get over someone.
2006-07-12 04:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Dan w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move one and remember guys are like buses they come every fifteen minutes. If it didn't work that just means that there is some else out there for you!
2006-07-12 04:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. He has moved on, and if you try and tell him now - he will tell you its over. It is over. Try and do something nice with your friends instead. Before you know it, you've got something else on your mind (or someone else when time comes)
Good luck
2006-07-12 04:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is not easy to have that happenen to you but i think you should call him up and tell how you really fell just say "i really need to talk to you it is important"and if he does not listen i would try to froget about him
~railman9000
2006-07-12 04:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋