Please give details if you have participated or watched.
2006-07-12 04:37:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have participated and watched and at the time it was the ultimate thrill for me to be able to be naked, share my body and feel free to be one of the group. Its not all what you think it is, its fun for the moment but after wards you get tired of being used. Some men try to take advantage of every woman there and try to be "mr. macho" and I have even been around some women at a swinger party that compete to see how many men they can do in one night. I got to realizing that it was not for me to be involved in this type of situation. Its too risky, not right in the eyes of the Lord and you can get yourself into a bind for sure with other say, mans wife if she is jealous of you or something. I do not want to be involved with a divorce suit over swinging. Not at all....I prefer to stay monogamous now.
2006-07-12 04:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Scarlett 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's not enough room on this website to give you all of the details on what it is and what it's like. Everyone has their own experience of it and you take what you want out of it.
There are some people who go to clubs to just watch people have sex, some people go so they can be watched, others go so they can have just oral sex, or just same sex fun, and others go so they can have sex with other people.
We've been swinging now for about 5 years. We've had some wonderful experiences and we've met some great people. But, just like anything else, there's been some bad times too.
Swinging is going to be whatever you make of it. Don't listen to all of the people here who say it's horrible and you shouldn't do it. Also, don't listen to the people who say it's the best thing since sliced bread.
Go and research the topic and find out what's true, what's not, what's garbage and what's great about it. Then have a long talk with your spouse about if it's the thing for you.
2006-07-12 14:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really works well if the woman drives it and has all say.. that is the way I have seen in the long term swingers. 5 years now and we are going strong
2006-07-17 14:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tequila Gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swingers is when husbands and wives swap and do different partners, its all quite bizarre if you ask me. I have never watched nor do I know any body who has participated
2006-07-12 11:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by tiger2say 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never watched it
2006-07-12 11:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by brittanyfitts11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go back and forth but never lose your grip!!!!!
2006-07-12 11:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋