My twin sister likes the guy I dumped. (I think it's fine) So when a friend was over, she decided to call him while I was doing the dishes. Our friend asked him if he would go out with her, and he said yes. Then, we were going to invite him somewhere, so at 8:30 at night we called him. We knew he had a bigger house, so when he didn't answer, we called again just incase he couldn't reach the phone. Then, at 10:00 at night, we called him again to try ONE more time before we stopped calling. He didn't answer. I guess either he was annoyed and told his mom, or his mom eavesdropped and found out. So she called my mom and told her that we were harassing him. (It was 2 weeks after I dumped him) My mom got mad and told us that if you like a guy, you should wait for him to talk to you. I think that is old fashioned and stupid. How do you think his mom found out? Do you think we called too late? Do you think my mom is right? (He's supposed to stay away from us, because we'll fight over him!)
2006-07-12 04:24:37 · 6 answers · asked by Bunny Slippers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay...I guess the story got a bit long and confusing. I DON'T care that my sister likes him. This is NOT about a fight with her. This is about helping my sister get with him because I think they are a good match!
2006-07-12 04:30:27 · update #1
I'm not mad at my mom or anything, i just think it was unfair...
2006-07-12 04:40:47 · update #2
Be forgiving and fair to your Mom, shes living in the past..You did nothing wrong..Back in my days a girl would never ask a guy out, but nowdays shes foolish if she dont..No sweetheart your not wrong but give your poor old Mom a break as things are just moving to fast for us old timmers to catch up... LOL and old timmer ROB
2006-07-12 04:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
his mom's nosy and shouldn't be in your business, unless the guy told his mom cuz that's obviously different. 10:00 PM late? not even, unless you're under 12 or 13 and the guy has a strict curfew or something. also, i think your mom's right to a point. call him once in a while instead of several consecutive times during one night but the guy should be taking care of most of the 'courting'
2006-07-12 04:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, if you dumped him, there should be no fight, number 2 your mom is completely right, girls are not supposed to call the guy. Thats one reason that women get named as sluts. You two need to quit playing each others games and each others dates. You can both search out your own. Yes you called to late, and if it were my son i would forbid him from seeing either one of your needy asses!
2006-07-12 04:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son talks to me..... so, I would guess HE told her.
I was brought up waiting for the guy to talk to me.... I think I missed out on meeting who I would have liked to go out with because I was afraid to ask.
However, you COULD introduce yourself by eye contact.... when whoever it is makes eye contact, look him in the eye until HE looks away. He'll get the idea, if he is interested.
Don't call boys over and over again...... it only feeds their ego.
2006-07-12 04:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no your mom is not right .......honestly you should dumb him....you don't need a guy whose mom knows everything.
2006-07-12 04:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, just leave him alone. You don't need the drama.
2006-07-12 04:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋