ok 16 have 1 baby 1 on da way neway when i had my 1st baby my bf left me but after a couple of months later he came back to me and when i told him that i waz preg. possiblely his baby or not we are still together but im scared that when i have the new baby that he will leave me again and when it gets a lil bit older he will come back but i dont know if i should take him back after what he's doing to me ? what should i do ?
2006-07-12 03:48:45 · 23 answers · asked by stupid13blonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are 16 with a baby , and you have a baby - you are in big trouble, good luck
2006-07-12 03:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be having two children. Who's gonna take care of them and send them to school? What about your future? You wont be able to dedicate much time to yourself because you'll have to be spending all that time and money on your children. Your education will be stifled and as for college... well good luck. You shouldnt be worrying about your stupid boyfriend right now- you should be looking ahead as to how you'll cope with the pressures of life from having two children at 16. If you dont be careful and stop having sex- especially unprotected sex you just might make the situation a little worse with a couple more kids. Grow up and look beyond your immediate pleasures. Think about your life and how you want to life it and what is best for you.
Good Luck.
2006-07-12 04:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Hot all over :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be there for you and your baby, that is great; however, if he leaves do not let him come back. You need to take care of your baby (when he comes) and leave the boys alone b/c you are now a mother.
2006-07-12 03:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is the father and willing to work things out, i personally think that u should give him a chance to be there for u two. while he is around u right now do the necessary to keep him around. if ur parents are aware of what's going on let hem have a talk with him. maybe he might change his mind about leaving u again this time.
2006-07-12 04:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their are men out there who will love and take care of you the way a woman should be taken care of. sometimes it takes a while to find the right one. don't take him back!!! how many babies do you need to have from this guy. the sex can not be that great. you are 16, use birth control. life can be a blast, but unfortunately we still need to be responsible.
2006-07-12 03:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me help you out a little. He is scared hell look how old you are 16 with two kids. either he is scared or he goes off to **** someone else behind your back Yeah that is probably not the awnser you were looking for huh?
2006-07-12 03:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all. what are you doing? do you realize you have completely destroyed your childhood? you will never know what it's like to be a teenager. you need to do something to prevent any more pregnancies, STOP having sex (your best prevention) or birth control. very rarely do the fathers stick around in your age group. prepare yourself for the worst, raising these kids on your own.
2006-07-12 04:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to devote some time into getting your life together rather than to continue to have children that you obviously at age 16 are not ready for nor can you afford.....Sorry, sad but true!
2006-07-12 03:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if he stays with you then its all good, but if he doesn't then NO MATTER WHAT don't take him back!!!! He is just using you then when he gets bored he wants to go find someone else but then he probably misses they way you took care of him, so he comes back.
2006-07-12 03:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by flutter_by_baby20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters you should have kept you legs closed! your too young to have 2 kids. But I think the best life for those kids would be putting them for adoption so they and you could have a better life. I am guessing you are or will be on public assistance and I will be paying ffor your mistakes. thanks alot
2006-07-12 03:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋