im a nice guy never cheated on anyone,always treat women well and with respect,i have a good personality,good SOH, average to good looking,but im not rich or have a nice car etc so why is it when i meet someone they always end up dumping me for a "bad boy"?
2006-07-12 03:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by martin e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you're being too nice and not testing them enough. Perhaps it gets boring after a while and they want more excitement, hence the bad boys. Personally, I'm seeking a nice guy, but only seem to meet the 'bad' ones who usually let me down. I keep being told it takes time to meet the right person who'll accept and respect the person you are, but I'm a bit fed up with giving it so much time!!
2006-07-12 03:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by pniccimiss 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
You are a nice guy, that means you are heading to becoming some woman's cuddle-b1tch.
Women do not want a nice guy, they want a GOOD MAN. someone who, like you, is caring, but who also has a bsckbone, is strong, is willing and able to say no. women need someone strong enough to stand up to them, but for the right reasons.
They don't want some drippy , "Oh I love and respect you so I'll do anything you say" kind of weed.
Neither do they want some kinda arsh0le.
Grow some balls man! become a real man and find that woman who you can love and protect.
they are not out there asking, where are the nice guys? They know where they are, they are sat guarding the women's handbags, whilst the women are off dancing with some grunting arsh0le.
The women I know ask "Oh where have all the GOOD MEN gone?"
google "ladder theory" DON'T BE A CUDDLE-B1TCH!
2006-07-12 04:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by kenhallonthenet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the age of the women you're going out with. Younger women tend to go through the 'bad boy' stage but find that gets really boring after a while. Most women grow out of it, but maybe the women you're seeing are just immature?
2006-07-12 03:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by aurora_xtc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have to admit this.....while the sweet guy is great we just love the guy that dad would hate and doesn't care what anybody thinks, it is just sexy. it is stupid cuz in the end we end up getting heartbroken but we still do it. but eventually we get smart and realize the bad boy isn't as great as the guy that will hold doors for u and never be cheat on us so just wait for one of those girls who have gotten smart
2006-07-12 03:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i like nice guys and to me it doesn't matter what kinda car u got as long as ur going some where in life but i do like guys with a backbone. Someone who is tough but knows how to treat a woman NOW THAT'S HARD TO FINE!
2006-07-12 03:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Zaya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how you feel buddy but nice guys hardly ever put their selves up and get noticed while the other guys do plus gals like to keep things interesting and they enjoy the good old chase by other guys so if you get another gal just try and keep things interesting enough so that she feels that they is no one else she rather be with
2006-07-12 03:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by chaopred 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to believe there is a women out there for you. We're not all gold diggers some of us are actually nice and considerate to the men we let into our lives ... Just remember to be yourself with them! If they don't like you for who you are then they are not worth it mate!
2006-07-12 03:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've had the same problem. neva done anything wrong, go dumped so many times. Its just women mate, and they blame us : (
2006-07-12 03:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not mature enough to know better
2006-07-12 03:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by minime 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 words man 'They are women'.... who understands women.
2006-07-12 03:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋