My ex lover and I broke up over a year ago but were still friends his e-mails lateley are very sexual and his is talking about different sexual thing we used to do together. I would like to get back together but im not sure please help, im confused.
2006-07-12 03:46:51 · 25 answers · asked by arreis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you a sucker for punishment? He just wants sex.If you go back with him, you will only feel used and dirty.Don't do it sweety.This is advice from a guy whose seen it all to often.Good luck.
2006-07-12 03:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bubsy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say do it. Why did you break up in the first place? I'm sure it was something childish or selfish. People don't have good reasons for breaking up now adays anyway. If he wasn't beating you, then what did he do that couldn't be worked out. You both obviously still want each other sexually, so stop kidding yourself and jump back on it.
2006-07-12 03:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place. Whatever the reason, it probably hasn't changed much. It sounds as if he is lonely and just wanting sex. Don't allow yourself to fall into that trap. Stop allowing him to talk "dirty" and see if he still wants to talk to you in a respectful way. If so, try again, but be careful. If not, you know he was only wanting one thing. If you do hook up with him again, use birth control!!!!
2006-07-12 03:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has probably hit a rut sexually and while he waits for something new to come along he figures he will go back to you to get some in the meantime. Don't do it. You will regret it.
2006-07-12 03:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Butkusman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me he could be using these e-mails he sends to you as a form of mental punishment to you and hurt you on the subject how things used to be ans the impression i'm getting is he hasn't fully accepted the break up and is using your sexual encounters with him as a form of punishment more or less to get even with you
2006-07-12 03:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get back with. Maybe you should give it a chance. Since you did stay in touch, that means you have feelings for him. So take the leap, he may be the ying to your yang. You don't want to be mad at yourself that you didn't give it chance do you.
2006-07-12 03:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get hurt. He is probably hoping to move your friendship to making booty calls. If you care about him, you will get hurt, because he will still be looking or may already have a girlfriend, and have you as a "side dish."
2006-07-12 03:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the exact same situation myself....i guess its a 'catch22' you wont know unless you actually find out for yourself.
No amount of answers on here is gonna help....bummer !!!
Good luck
2006-07-12 03:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by suzairspliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's the sex. He is reminiscing about the good sex you shared- does he talk about you getting back together at all? Think before you act.
2006-07-12 03:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen it's a watse of time just move on with ur life.
if he loved u so much he should of thought of that before he hurt u.
2006-07-12 03:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋