I'm interested in this guy and we are going on out this coming saturday night, what i need help with is? Without freeking him out, how can i tell him about my feeling? And also without hurting myself in the proses? Last question is it a good idea to kiss on the first date??
2006-07-12 03:38:55 · 23 answers · asked by CJV228 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a girl but just to let you know from a guy's perspective, RELAX!!!! Just be yourself. Enjoy the date and if you want to kiss him on the first date go ahead and kiss him. If it feels right to tell him how you feel, be fun about it! Let this date be a fun experience and just go with the flow. You'll find out you have no control over any of this stuff and if you and he fit it will just flow naturally. Don't try to plan much of anything. Relax, be yourself, and if you do get to kiss him lay it on him! ;)
Sincerely,
Stephen King
2006-07-12 03:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy: DO NOT LET HIM KNOW YOUR FEELINGS for at least 4 dates. A kiss is acceptable, but just kiss him on the cheek before he has a chance to make a move. Any tongue on the first date and he'll want more on the next date. Just tell him at the end of the night that you really enjoyed the date and that you'd like to go out again sometime.
2006-07-12 10:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by El Pistolero Negra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissin on the first date depends on the chemistry.
Im wondering what feelings you have for this guy and you havent gone on your first date yet.
Take it slow and be yourself and make sure that you like this guy for the right reasons.
When you go on your date Saturday, just let him know that you are interested in gettin to know him.
That will tell him how you feel without you coming across as aggressive
2006-07-12 10:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is only the 1st date, I don't think you should be gushing about how much you like him. If he's taking you out, then that's a good sign. Just let things happen naturally for a while. I think it's okay to kiss on the 1st date, but dreaming about it while waiting for the 2nd date is so much more fun.
2006-07-12 10:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by not2nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only reveal a part of your feelings for him on your first date. For example, tell him that you really like him but do not scare him off until you know how he truly feels about you.
Then, at the end of the date, initiate the kiss and see if he gets the hint, if he has not all ready done so.
2006-07-12 10:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO kiss on the first date. You have to make him wait for it. That will show you are worth it and not too fast. He will respect you more for that. When you talk on your date, you will get the vibe if you should tell him your feelings or not. Let him tell you something first- guys will get scared and maybe take off if you speak to soon. If he asks you if you like him, tell him, "you're alright" then laugh- it will break the ice. Then get serious and tell him he seems ok, but you would like to get to know him better before you make that decision.
Good lcuk!
2006-07-12 10:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him how you feel on the first date and that will eliminate the second question as well. It might freak him out so hold your tongue for a while and as for kissing him if the situation feels right go for it.
2006-07-12 10:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, wait 'till the date to figure out about the whole 'feeling' thing... You may not know this guy as well as you think you do! :) But yeah, go ahead and kiss girl! Make the 1st move! ;D
2006-07-12 10:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him anything. Let it happen naturally. Don't plan it. If the mood is right tell him how you feel at that given moment. Kissing well maybe you can wait. But check out his hygiene too. You know bad breath or food and plaque on teeth. All that counts. At least for me.
2006-07-12 10:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out and have fun. Dating is about getting to know each other, and until you get to know him, you won't know if you really like him. So just have a good time, and if things go well, and you feel like giving him a goodnight kiss, go ahead.
2006-07-12 10:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋