Im always having doubts about him and the craziest doubt is me thinking hes bi or something. He used to be more loving and now that we have a year of going out he acts more different.
2006-07-12 02:43:04 · 17 answers · asked by fairy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think hes bi because theres this guy thats 13 yrs old and i think hes bi and he likes my bf and has said some stuff that my bf has tried to do with him my bf said its not true and lately my bfs uncle said and everyones been saying he looks like he is bi or something becasue he always stares at the guy and hes done it in front of me but he swears hes not gay and thinks being like that is a sin. Im confused.
2006-07-12 03:12:15 · update #1
Do you love him? Do you see yourself with him in the future? Is your relationship with him everything and more? Those are just some questions you need to answer to yourself. Maybe having insecurities comes from not speaking with him about them, that what we guys are here for, make some time and sit down and speak with him and you may find yourself in a better position in your relationship.
2006-07-12 02:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by surf_jayme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"till death do us part" is a hell of a long time... do you really want to make a commitment to love and cherish someone till death if you're insecure even in the tiniest little bit? maybe your internal instinct is trying to tell you something. Reevaluate your feelings for him and your future together. Do soul searching and then decide. So many people think marriage is no big deal and get married to find out they really didn't love the person and end up getting divorced. Until you're sure, wait on marriage.
2006-07-12 02:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he is not, believe him and he love u 4 that.
But talk 2 him so he won't snap at u..ask him some questions.
1) have u been abused in ur child hood?
2) any1 try 2 touch u in some way?
these questions way go a far way.
U need to understand that if u were in his shoes, u be sick of those who say "u look gay"
People look in a certain way, it's not coz he is 1.
if u love him go 4 it.
2006-07-12 03:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he's bi?
5 words for you:
When in doubt do without.
2006-07-12 03:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by iamlaura2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have insecurities that is one thing. Do you trust him? Do you love him? Do you want to marry him?
You should talk to him about your insecurities and concerns before you marry him but if you answered yes to the other questions then you really need to decide for yourself. Ask yourself these questions:
Is he the one for you?
Are you happy?
Can you live with these insecurities?
2006-07-12 02:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, it is normal to feel a little scared about getting married. Insecurities are often a way that fear presents itself. The question you ahve to ask yourself is "do you reallly trust his answers to your insecurites over everyone else's?"
2006-07-12 05:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by puppyraiser8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel if you husband is a bi????
As long as if you are comfortable with it then okay if not then dump the guy fast.
2006-07-12 03:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Postpone the wedding indefinitely. If it's meant to be you will know -but don't marry him to find out later it was a bad decision.
2006-07-12 02:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by exclusiveindigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Der
if you have any doubts what so ever then delay or forget unless or until you resolve them.
you need to be completely at ease with someone who you intend to live with until your dead.
marriage should be serious
2006-07-12 02:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that insecure, don't get married. Marriage is a one time deal (or should be)....and it's a lifelong commitment........if you have doubts, don't do it and regret it.
2006-07-12 05:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋