at the school dance some wise *** started putting moves on her and i kicked his ***. i guess you could say im a protective bf.i know that being her bf means that i dont own her. but i care for her.
2006-07-12 02:30:36 · 26 answers · asked by swatteam202 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whaen i beat up the guy she asked for my help.
2006-07-12 02:35:59 · update #1
If you care for her, then let her make the right decision for herself at camp. If she feels the same care for you, rest assured that nothing will happen. If she for some reason doesn't, you being protective of her when she doesn't want it would just make it harder for both of you. If it worries you, talk to her about it.
2006-07-12 02:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Glenn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha!
Dude, you are NOT a "protective bf" - as you put it.....
What you ARE is a jealous moron!
You're a little insecure, aren't you? Not sure if your girl is really into you, huh? That's why you feel the need to know what she's up to all the time, right?
There's obviously not much TRUST in your relationship that you have to wonder if she's gonna be kissing some guy when she's away from you, right?
You're not behaving very mature in front of your girl, and she's noticing. You're acting like an overbearing macho type (probably to compensate for some inner insecurities, or short-commings).
Believe me, dude....chics HATE IT when their guy act so jealously and overprotective like you have been.
Yes, I'm willing to bet that your girl is sick and tired of your actions lately. I'll tell you right now, bro....you're gonna loose her, unless you adjust your behavior!
Listen....being jealous is a natural reaction that's hard to control. But you CAN control it. You'll never get rid of that feeling, but you CAN keep it in check! (especially around your girlfriend!).
You're gonna loose THIS girl, eventually (face it! Plus, she deserves someone better than you!).....but let that be a lesson on what NOT TO DO when you get your next girlfriend.
Don't be an asshole!
2006-07-12 02:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Pulse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you care for her but she is her own person and I'm sure she knows right from wrong and doesn't need you stomping on every guy that crosses her path. She has a mouth and I'm sure she knows how to use it. Has she given you any reason to not to trust her? Be careful, jealousy can be an ugly thing and destroy a perfectly good relationship. Keep making her feel like you don't trust her and it will definitely put a damper on your relationship. Not to mention, a person that constantly accuses their partner of wrong doing is because he/she himself is actually doing it. Open communication is the key. See what is actually in front of you, don't make it what it isn't. Listen and hear what is being said, don't understand, ask for clarification. Speak the truth, share your worries and avoid lies. Be confident in your relationship unless something gives you good reason not too, this doesn't include jealousy! Don't allow jealousy to control your actions. Trust his/her words! Instincts are a great thing, learn to use them but don't confuse them with jealousy or insecurity!
2006-07-12 02:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really knew ur gurl u wouldnt b askin that question. But u did so u should just lay low cause u cant control that situation. So u need to talk to her more and have an understanding of where u guys r in a relationship so u will have no doubts. But, of course so often we stray away no matter how much the other person loves us we go to someone else to try it.
2006-07-12 02:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How immature of you to kick someone's ***. Bet that really showed your gf just what kind of a little boy you are.
Hopefully, your gf will find a nice guy at camp and have a ball kissing him. While she's gone, use the time to attend anger management classes.
2006-07-12 02:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im efficient that if she has a thanks to get over their, shell have a some time previous. no matter if its catching a vacation with a chum or calling her mum and dad. Anywho, I doubt that she is going to cheat on you, shes going to camp no longer cheat! And shouldnt you be asking her if she will have cell telephones? She is the single going, she might want to understand what its all about.
2016-11-06 06:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys, give the girl the benefit of the doubt. ok, so you worry that she might kiss another guy; if you trust her enough, you wouldnt be thinking about it. it's alright to be protective, but just dont go overboard. give her a breathing space. and if you still have the nagging thoughts about her, it's best if you two talk.
2006-07-12 02:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by DJ Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound like your to sure of who you are you can't just go around kicking butt because some jerk made a pass at your girl what did your girl do did she give you your respect if so then whats the big deal don't spend every moment thinking about what your girl is doing at camp what is meant to be will be
2006-07-12 02:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you give her a chance to resist his advances first before acting as you did? She's her own person and can make her own decisions in a matter such as this. If she truly wants to be with you she won't stray - and as a general rule controlling them by making the decision for them will usually push them away and make them more likely to leave you for another.
2006-07-12 02:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...get a life? You just need to hope kissing is the most she does while away from you.
2006-07-12 02:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋