I'm 14, and I'm old enough to get a job but, my mom doesn't want me to. Eveytime I bring up the subject she quickly either walks outta the room to avoid the conversation or starts talking about something else. I've told her all the benifits there'd be. Like, I'd be able to pay for my own stuff and the like...Any suggestions?
2006-07-12 02:15:50 · 21 answers · asked by Erin S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are only 14. You have your whole life ahead of you to work. Just enjoy your childhood right now.
2006-07-12 02:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not expect your parents to pay you for helping around the house. That is something you should be doing anyway.
Jobs you can do for neighbors: Mowing lawns, walking pets, washing cars, and babysitting (if you are a responsible kid).
You may find it difficult to get a job at 14 because most jobs require you have skills. It does not hurt to ask. Try jobs that do not require a college education, such as fast food, grocery stores, shops, etc.
One way to build your skills is through volunteering. You will not get paid but you will learn valuable skills that will help you get a job someday. Maybe your parents will agree to compensate you for volunteering. They can consider it a donation to a good cause.
A great site is http://www.volunteermatch.org/
If you are adventurous, you can try running your own internet business by buying things at garage sales and selling them online at http://www.ebay.com . Research what things are selling for on ebay before purchasing. (Also, avoid buying stuff on ebay or you will spend more than you make.) I suggest you specialize in a few items: specific toys, books, etc. You are going to become an expect so pick a category that you really enjoy. (When you see a bargain you will know it!) Be certain to check the website daily to make certain your customers are happy. To make a profit you will need to calculate the costs: ebay fees, paypal fees, packaging materials, and postage.
Good luck!
2006-07-14 01:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm..is there a specific reason she wouldn't want u to get a job???What kind of job are u talking about (babysitting,mowing yards,paper route,what?)or did u want a work permit?Does she think it will interfer with school work?I would ask her why she doesn't want u to work(and instead of telling her u can pay for your own stuff,(which u didn't say whether or not you and your mom are struggling financially) tell her u want to save up for a car or something...so if u are struggling finance wise your mom might be embarrassed that u would have to work so young..or maybe she wants u to enjoy being a kid..(working isn't fun and you'll have to do it the rest of your life,so why do u want to start early?)I understand why you'd want to work if there's things you'd like to buy....i don't really understand either why your mom wuldn't let u have a job as long as it didn't interfere with school work(and your grades didn't drop)It's a good way to learn responsibility and also how to handle your own money(u pay more attention to what u spend it on when u have to work to get the money,instead of just being handed some)
2006-07-12 09:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you can borrow $1000.00 dollars or Apply for a loan,ask her to co-sign. Tell her you have no choice and start selling kisses this fall at school. That ought to get her attention. With out telling the fam. Put up signs all over the neighbor hood and have a yard sale.
Cart everything you own out there. That should at least let them know how serious you are! Good luck!
2006-07-12 09:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ahab 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about babysitting. It is seen as minor and can make big money! Mothers like that to start with if they think you are responsible enough. Ask her. Or tell her you want to buy things but don't have money maybe you can work for her? At 14 you need to start something little. Good luck.
2006-07-12 09:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, since you're really not old enough to work "legally", try going to the YMCA for a babysitters course. That way, you're mom will see that you are really sincere and she will feel more secure knowing you have prepared for this new job. I think you're going in the right direction and more kids should be like you. YOU GO GIRL !
2006-07-12 09:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it will teach responsibility, and it can prepare you for your adult years. Not even for you to just buy your own things, but she could help manage your money, advise on opening a checking and savings account. Keep trying with her, I'm sure at one point, she's going to see how serious you are, and she'll believe in your abilities. By the way, Good for you!!!! I hope everything goes well for you.
2006-07-12 09:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started working when I was 14 and it was great. I learned responsibility, learned more about people and our world (gee, it really doesn't revolve around 14-year old me after all), earned my own money, paid for my own things, saved the rest of the money, eventually bought my own car and paid for my own insurance on it, etc...
I think it's important for young people to work. Good for you for wanting to. Keep trying to talk to your Mom. Ask her what her objections are to your working. Good luck.
2006-07-12 09:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want a new car, a new ipod, a big screen tv, and some designer clothes, purses and shoes. She will probably insist that you get a job to learn the value of money.
2006-07-12 09:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Hope A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most parents won't let their children get jobs at the age of 14. I would wait until next year when you're 15. You'll probably have better luck.
2006-07-12 09:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋