Well when i was 11 i was raped by a maid but i loved it because i started going to her.what does ti feel like to be a lesbian and hoe did you know you were one?i want to be sure am not one coz i don't come with men, but i won't say am attracted to women
2006-07-12 02:02:42 · 17 answers · asked by shiva 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EWWW...SICK...WELL THATS WHAT HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND...SHE GOT RAPED...AND EVER SINCE SHE HAS BECAME LESBO....WELL GO GET SOME THERAPY CAUSE YOU NEED SOME HELP!!!
2006-07-12 02:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the issue might be with the male partners you have had. I was in a relationship for a long time but i never came during sex! I have a new partner that loves me and treats me with respect and guess what I come during sex almost all the time!!! dont conclude that you are a lesbian until you meet the right man!!
2006-07-12 09:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by cassandra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you don't come with men (there are a lot of women who don't) does not mean you're a lesbian. if you are not attracted to women and do not want them sexually then I wouldn't call you a lesbian. Everyone experiments with sexual orientation. You experiment so you can find out what you like.
2006-07-12 09:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by simplybeeingme 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
11 is a sensitive age we are all at a discovery phase of our sexuality and what happened to you was your first sexual experience...........its not like that if you were raped by a man you would have been a serial sleeper with men....go for a therapy get your feelings out and then contemplate ......if u still like women no harm....its not a crime live life naturally and enjoy it dont force yourself to do what you dont like and regret all life
2006-07-12 09:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by morpheusthe dream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being raped does not make you a lesbian, being a woman who is sexually attracted to other women does.
2006-07-12 09:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Trish D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A counsellor will help you on this one because of your background with the maid that has brainwashed you.
2006-07-12 09:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really go to therapy because this will help you define yourself. It's the most secure way to get to know the truth.
2006-07-12 09:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont come with men because they arent doing it right!! And besides, I am a lesbian.....trapped in a mans body!!
2006-07-12 09:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i knew a similar situation..........was raped by a female maid too at 9yrs!! ever since she has issues gettg along wit men......try to get over it...it not ur fault,just a stupid maid that took undue advantage........u surely get along wit a man
2006-07-12 09:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by simile b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to hear about your sad story. Pleasecontinue to date large nubers of men,and when you have deep trust of one of them tell him your story.Then wait adn see his reaction.Of course you may loose him but you will be released from that childhood traumatic event.
Good Luck and .........persevere.
2006-07-12 09:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by mustafaalnagar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋