if i tend to warrants I will miss my chld born but if i dont it will prob. be affected to. what do I do?

Question

I have warrants and my g/f is 4 mons. pregnat. We moved away from home becasue of this. If we move back and I take care of this issue I will miss my child being born and pro. the first part of my childs life. I am not sure how long. If we stay where we are we are both unhappy. We want our familes to be a part of the childs life. My warrants are for fleeing on probation, missing court, and prob. missing a few diffrent fine payments as welll.

Answer 1

your child doesn't deserve to have such a dick head for a father in it's life. Do it a favour and surrender now, give it the chance of a decent life away from a father that hasn't grown up.

Sorry to be harsh but if you were my kids father (which you wouldn't be, cos I wouldn't be stupid enough to get myself knocked up by a dumb *** criminal) I wouldn't want you anywhere near my kids while you have a criminal record over your head.

Have a nice day :-)

Answer 2

if i were u i would go back home and deal with the situation.You going to be a daddy time to stand up and be a man and take responsibility for your actions. The longer you run from the problem the bigger its going to get. My husband missed are son being born for the same or almost the same reason. Yes you would probaly miss ur child being born but you say both of your guys family is there she would have support she wouldnt go through it alone.Granted its not the same as you being there.But it really is better to get this thing taken care of now while the babys not here or is very young and wouldnt know any different.Instead of having this come back and bite you in your butt when the kids 2 or 3 yeasr old wondering where his daddys at.
I wish you the best of luck hope everything works out with you

Answer 3

I think that you need to go back and be responsible. These things will follow you forever, they don't just go away. Once you get it taken care of you won't have to worry anymore and you can work on getting your life together to be there for your child. They'll eventually pick you up anyways, whether it be from a routine traffic stop. The cops can and will send you back to the place where you have warrants.

Answer 4

Hello my name is Talia and I have four children and have been married for 5 years now to a wonderful man who was in a situation as you are. I know you want to see you child born and be part of he/she's life and it is a hard decision. My husband as much as he loved me had to turn himself in and at the time he was running from parole for a felony. It turned out that he only got six months time and he was out to begin our lives with out running any more. He did get 2 years parole but I am so thankful that it is behind us now and we can move on with our lives. Ask your self one question, Do I want to keep running and constantly looking over my shoulder? I think you will see that it is better to get it over with now and possibly be out by the time your baby is born due to the circumstances. You won't have to ever leave you girl friend or child again and right now the baby doesn't know, but he/she will if you continue to run and get caught.. I wish you the best of luck and I have you in my prayers.. God is always watching over you..

Answer 5

Buddy, you have a girlfriend and a child on the way. It is way past time to grow up. You can't run away from your problems. Somewhere, somehow, it will catch up with you. Go home. Turn yourself in. Work your *** off jumping thru the hoops they are going to give you to jump thru. Show everybody that you are ready to become a responsible member of society. Good Luck.

Answer 6

my ex and I did the same thing when I got preg. 11 yrs. latter and he has never taken care of the warrant ( which is for the same thing as you ) but we only went to another county as to still be close to family.
my new BF kinda had the same problem but he only stayed away for a year and during that time he put himself through rehab, goes to AA/NA meetings every night and had people write letters on how good hes doing and all that stuff, turned himself in (which amazed the court ) and for the felony that he had committed, they only gave him probation ( and he has a lot of felonies already on his record). they were amazed how in 1 yr. he completely turned his life around.

this is all just food for thought. Good Luck.

Answer 7

you may miss the birth and even parts of the first parts of the babys life but you really have to get this out of the way and taken care of. you cant ever be happy with that on your shoulders. espcially with a new baby. Itll be even harder to go take care of the things you need to take care of once youhave seen the baby too. Just take care of your responsiblities now and then come back to your child and girlfriend.

Answer 8

My friend, i speak not in judgement of you, but truly and honestly, the best thing for you to do is to turn yourself in. if you dont, you will continue live your life in fear of being caught. no matter where you run, if you get stoped by the police for any reason, you will be checked in NCIC (national crime information center) and you will be arrested. a judge is also far more likely to go easy on you if you do turn yourself in rather than being a fugitive.

Think about your family and your future.

Good luck

Answer 9

Go home. Deal with it now. Your girlfriend can use yours and her family for support and if you do your time now, before the baby even knows anything about you--you can be back home when the child needs a dad around and can remember you.

Answer 10

I would definatley man up and go back and take care of this. The sooner you turn yourself in the sooner you could be with your g/f and daughter. Good luck! And congrats on being a dad!