My boyfriend of a month only calls me a couple days a week?
He doesn't text me in between or anything. Is this normal or am I being a needy girl?
2006-07-12 00:48:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you are that needy, I would want more also. I think that maybe he is not up for commitment if you want more you might have to dump him.
2006-07-12 00:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing it cool.you do the same.Do not chase him,girls dont do that.It will make you seem needy and desperate.Yes you are needy,some men are always texting,phoning etc.Others are quite distant.Do you really want to have a boyfriend like that?I can see you not being with him in the not so distant future.You need affection,reassurance,he is not that type.I am a needy person,Ive had fellas like that,it made me feel unwanted.Questioning what had I done wrong.answer.nothing.You need someone lovey dovey,my current partner is always texting leaving little love notes,etc etc.I thrive of the attention and love.Its only been a month,think carefully.I personally think you should say to him its not working out.If he truly truly likes you he will try to talk you out of it.he would say how much he likes you etc.If he couldnt care less then he will just say ok.Its one way to find out.Its only been a month,if he couldnt care less,sod him,he doesnt sound worth the effort anyway.I would then think,good,I can find someone more suitable.
2006-07-12 07:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being needy. Call a friend. Go out and have a good time without the boyfriend.
2006-07-12 07:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning of my relationship I only ever called her a couple of days a week. Later on I called her everyday.
Ease off a bit, he doesn't need to call you everyday. yet.
=)
2006-07-12 07:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too needy. Have fun in between. Don't sit around waiting for him. People need space in a relationship --- INCULDING WHEN THEY ARE MARRIED so being youg, it is necessary. If you smother him, you will lose him. Period.
2006-07-12 07:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has other things going on in his life besides you. (Not meaning to be rude) Does he work??? Do you work, if you don't maybe you should look into getting a job, then you won't be so concerned about him getting in touch with you. Do you read??? Try it!!! Find a yourself a thick novel for the summer!!!
2006-07-12 07:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a break holy crap.. it's normal.. you've been dating a month, and he's got a life besides you. Not everyone texts every 5 mins , if that's what you want, get a DOG
2006-07-12 07:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whinning! Yes you sound needy .
2006-07-12 07:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Beaumeader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm your exactly the same as me and i don't think thats needy. give it another month and see if he ups his calls. =) good luck xXx
2006-07-12 07:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hei, stay calm ..don rush into anything . Hv patience....Relax n let the river flow on it's path. If he is yours , HE'S YOURS
2006-07-12 08:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋