2006-07-12 00:03:00 · 14 answers · asked by mike v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha! I'm kind of in the same situation! perhaps, you guys should open up more to each other... you would DEFINITELY have something to talk about all day long!
2006-07-12 00:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I have been in relationships myself that have similar features to this, and I really think you'd be happier without him. And I think you already know this. It sounds like he is playing you, telling lies about how much he's "with" his ex-wife. And meeting you only in out-of-the way places is hurtful & doesn't sound very honest. Especially at your age, you could and should find someone with whom you can really be a couple and who can, and has time/space, to make you happy. When I was your age (I'm 36) I would've been irritated if someone called me young, but I'm only saying - now I have an 8 year old child & can't get out much to meet people. When I was 21 I was just like you - and made many mistakes, which bring me to where I am today, older and wiser, but with fewer options. Don't turn into me! Please read a few books like "Women men adore and never want to leave", that will inspire you to love yourself from within & attract someone who will love you and who deserves you. And most of all, you deserve more fun than waiting around to see some guy who doesn't treat you well & who seems to have gone off you anyway (and I think you've gone off him too!) Good luck Emily, UK x
2016-03-27 02:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's see . do u really love her ? i mean do u really wanna go on in this relation or not ? if u really do , then u should do some stuffs to spice up ur conversations , u know .. give her an extra care , let her know how much u miss her , and if u do really miss her why don't u make her a surprise and visit her , don't u think it would make the things between u more and more awesome . on the other hand , she must feels it too that ur conversations aren't as hot as it was so don't worry , i'm sure she's gonna do her best to please u too .. just don't ignore that thing and go on as if nothing happened , this is serious , u've to fix it before it's too late
2006-07-12 00:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through a Long Distance relationship too. I'm going to see her this August and I can't wait. I think about her everday.... so I suggest for you, talk more, try to see her and talk about the relationship because the key factor is trust and it IS harder to trust someone when they live far away...but if she really loves you, you should have no trouble talking to her and opening her up to tell u her emotions and such.... Thats the best advice I can give you...
2006-07-12 00:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dagger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well long distance relationship is something we all experience but when such problem the result is communication but since Ur commUNication is running dry the only thing is to visit and un know everyone love sUrprise so that will be a surprise to ur partner.
2006-07-12 00:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by kingebostarry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep the conversations running, even if the other party doesnt do that, cos with long distance relationship u need to keep talking to each otherwise its will die off. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-12 00:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by boselydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I to am in a long distance relationship and have been for five years now.it takes alot to keep the fire going on at times.we both have our moods
and you just have to really work at it of you love each other enough to want it to last.it isnt easy but can be done.trust is the big things here.i really feel like giving up at times myself but i love him so
I cant do that.so we always find a way to keep going on.good luck if you care enough for her you will find the right words to keep it going>
2006-07-12 00:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by popcorn 46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet up to see her one last time and see if the spark is still there. Being in person will help open up what has happened to make you two feel distant from each other.
Trust your instincts.
2006-07-12 00:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have answered ur question more comfortably if u could specify ur subject more clearly.have a nice day.bye.
2006-07-12 00:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She has most likely found someone else. You should do the same.
2006-07-12 00:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋