He has a myspace account and I know his password and I have a keylogger on my pc I know that he has been talking to girls and getting phone numbers. I especially know that he talks to one of his ex girlfriends and a 15 yrs old . I know what you are saying leave him yeah but I want REVENGE first what is a good idea to get back at him? It's time for war loll lol any suggestions............... I saved all conversations to be printed out and given to him but now what I need a good one. I am 24 yrs old pregnant with a daughter 7 years old already and he is the father to both of my children and we have been together for about 10 years.
2006-07-11 23:55:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I tell him I know about eveything? or should I continue to monitor his account and wait for him to f*** up ? I don't know what to do . He is already messing up calling people saying he will holla at them when he comes through there town/
2006-07-11 23:59:32 · update #1
Thanks for all comments good are bad :-) I do know now that revenge is not the key and yes I do need to grow up and move on and be positive for my two children. Thanks so much for all comments again and I will just forget about doing any revenge all together ...:-)
2006-07-12 01:21:32 · update #2
I can't stand f***ers like that. I hope you know that you are better than that and that you deserve better. 2 beautiful children and there he is being a f***in' JERK.
HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU or your family.
He is a low life and don't EVER blame yourself. And you need to continue to monitor everything and then hire/get advice from an attorney and get enough evidence on him to better your situation if bad things arise. Don't seek revenge. The revenge of leaving him and taking away his kids will (in the long run) will be the worst and best revenge. BE SMART and THINK AHEAD!
Take care. I wish you all the best!
2006-07-12 18:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Windy Sky Stormy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, You need to leave him alone. What did he do that was so bad? what does it matter who or what he is talking to? Sounds like you left him anyway. He may just be talking to them to try and get over you? You need to grow up. You said you were 24? Start acting like it. Sounds like you maybe hurt over all of this. Why did you guys break up? You guys have 1 child together and another on the way. Start being a parent and not a child your self. What if you daughter found out you were doing this? How would that make you look? She myay not see it now but she will later in life. You need to think about the kids, BOTH of you. That is the important thing at this moment. You guys got together really young. Most likely it wouldnt have work out down the road. You guys would have grow apart. People change as they get older and most of the time they are completely different people than they were 10 or even 15 years ago and they want different things. Just be happy of what you guys shared together. I know you may not feel it now but you will. I divorced my wife because she cheated on me. The first thing I want to do want what you are doing. Now, I am SO glad she did. My life iis so much better. I have found an a amazing woman who really loves me and I love her. What I am saying is things happen for a reason and we dont always see them that way. I didnt mean to be rude but I just say what is on my mind. Just remember, think about those kids. They really need there Mother and there Father. He is going to be in your life from here on out. You need to put the feelings aside for the kids. They will hurt more than anybody. You do that and everything else will fall into place. I hope you the best. Congrats on the new baby.
2006-07-12 07:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST REVENGE IS TO "LIVE WELL" WITHOUT HIM.
ALSO YOU NEED TO SET AN EXAMPLE FOR YOUR DAUGHTER, DO YOU WANT HER TO SEE "MOMMY ENGAGE IN WAR" YOUR UNBORN CHILD, WILL BE GOING ALONG FOR THE RIDE, STRESS, ANGER, HATE, REVENGE, IT WILL BE INTERNALIZED,
HOW ABOUT MAKING POSITIVE PLANS AND GOALS FOR YOUR FUTURE, THAT HAS ALL THE THINGS YOU ARE BEING CHEATED OUT OF?\
YOUR ANGER, AND DOING SOMETHING TO PUNISH HIM, PUT HIM IN HIS PLACE, REALLY "PISS HIM OFF" WILL ONLY RETURN MORE NEGATIVE RESULTS, MAYBE HARM, IF YOU ARE FINISHED, FED UP I DO NOT BLAME YOU,
IF YOU WANT WAR, THAT IS EASY, IT IS EVERYWHERE, TO REALLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE AND HAVE THE ________er MISERABLE, THAN BE A GREAT PERSON, GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE, SHOW HIM YOU DESERVE BETTER, AND HE DOES NOT QUALIFY ANY MORE TO BE THE MAN, IN YOUR LIFE,
HE WON'T FEEL THE PUNISHMENT THE WAY YOU WANT IT TO BE, YOU WILL FEEL, IT,,
I HOPE YOU FIND A PEACEFUL SOLUTION, AND I HOPE YOUR HEART HEALS, AND GETS READY FOR A "REAL MAN" to SHARE A LIFE WITH YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN,
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-12 07:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could give the conversations he's having with the 15 year old to the authorities.
If nothing else...the embarresment may set him straight.
What about his relationship with the kids?
2006-07-12 07:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
place on the net he is gay and place his phone number on the net. Get with a mistress where you live a work over. Place a picture of a gay adult site and show his mom and dad.
2006-07-12 06:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post a picture of him on the internet with a photoshopped tiny penis attached, unless his is that way already?
2006-07-12 06:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by tprincl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into his myspace, talk to all the girls act like him, like get sexual, and tell them that he has like a 3 inch penis, and very very thin! That might work....
2006-07-12 07:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by only14life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well best is to leave him nowhere try to break up his connection with the other girls once both of them leave him you leave him as well that will surely leave him high and dry and of course feeling sorry also
2006-07-12 07:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by dragonhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
onetime this guy mad me mad so i got a 5 gallon jug with a lid and s h i t in it till it was full then throw s h i t in his car and in the vents and on the car then i spray painted his car
2006-07-12 10:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by MIKE B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being happy and living well is the best revenge
2006-07-12 06:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by LifeOfAgony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋