Women! What do you see in a guy?

Question

For men its obvious that most men see beauty first and few men other things like nature etc. What what do you prefer in a guy, or what do you expect that your dream boy should be.....

Answer 1

i would like my guy to care for me and love me for who i am. he cant be too arrogant -- this is just a turnoff for most women.

i want someone who can make me feel special and like im the luckiest girl in the world.

i have to feel comfortable in his arms. i should be able to talk to him about anything and everything, and i should be able to cry on his shoulder without having to worry that he'll complain.

he's gotta be hardworking. he doesnt have to be rich, but he's got to make me feel secure about the lives we'll lead together.

if he's romantic, charismatic and good looking, its a great bonus :)

but basically, all women just want to love and be loved. :)

Answer 2

When i first met my husband he was married so i wasn't attracted to him at all, l thought he was quite ugly and old looking (like an old saggy worn teddy bear, he looked dead inside..he was 34 at the time), he and his ex-wife split, we was just friends, then as l got to know him, things just developed from there, l was attracted to his sense of humor, kindness, his honesty, he had very caring eyes, I'm glad we was friends first as I got to no the very real him, we married 3 years later and have been together 7 years now, we've had lots of downs in our time together but we work through each one together, we're a team. I cant ever see my life without him.

(Oh and he doesn't look old saggy etc anymore...I came to the conclusion it was his previous relationship that made him look that way)

Answer 3

I'm attracted to men that's a little older than me, wiser, a gentlemen and have a lovely personality that's not critcal of anything with a positive outlook to life and not judgemental. Also a well mannered person who can support not only himself be me. Fun loving that can laugh at himself every now and then.

Answer 4

You all say that but your like us. you go for something completely different. if you really go for what you said I'll be in a wonderful relationship, not worrying about myself, what clothes i wear, what i say, my long hair, and many other what the hell do i have to do to get noticed that doesn't involve owning a bloody car or having tons of cash?

Does any of you go for guys who are into spirituality?
Likes photography!
with good manners!
long brown hair and blue eyes.
(me)

Or

Thick morons who have only just enough intelligence to drive.
Stinks like a pub.
Chavy clothes.
Wife beaters.
Evil B****ds?
(i.e. Football supporters/ Chavs)

Answer 5

I love guys that can make me laugh, and have a cheeky smile!
I also think that guys should have a cool hair cut and style it somehow.
oooo and they have to have a kind heart!
haha yer just a few things

Answer 6

I like to see a sense of humor and love when they stick up for me. I don't care about looks if they have a good personallity.

Answer 7

he must have respect for me as well as others, should be able to take control of a situation and have self confidence. Must love me with all my faults, and there should always be trust. And a great sense of humour!!

Answer 8

looks are secondary with women more coz you men are so hooked up on sex & womens appearance we go for good sense of humour, kind, loving, mature, devoted & rich would help a lot!!!

Answer 9

good looking, not drop dead handsome no but nice to look at
tall
full boddied
funny
loving
caring
lots of hugs and kisses
can handle the fact that I love T Henry of arsenal

Answer 10

My dream guy would be very physically attractive (Muscular, nice smile, attractive face). He would also have to have a nice personality, be honest, and funny.